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[misombra]

i think frizzz was right. you guys are trying to pretend to have what a woman needs.

[doppelgaenger]

In the end, women are just looking for a guy who cares enough.

[Cain]

From my limited understanding of PUA this is not what they subscribe to at all. There is no intention to lie and cheat. The focus is mainly on attraction building techniques, how to talk, what's inappropriate to say, important body language cues, how to use body language to communicate what you want, how to maximize your chances by presenting your abilities to the fullest, meanings behind cues and so on.

PUA is not some secret Stone mason organization bent on world conspiracy against women, it's a just a collection of individuals (not too disimilar to what we have here in this forum) Some being more successful at finding good partners who share what they did to others to make it easier for them to achieve the same. That's pretty much it.

Exactly!

I think the problem is that some people here keep associating PUA with scum. They're looking at guys like in that video that was posted earlier and thinking that these are true PUAs. As I've said, it's all about the art of attraction.

Most PUAs will actually say that they won't lie to a girl. And a PUA isn't just anyone. A PUA is someone that is skilled in the art of attraction and knows the cues. Someone that reads a book isn't a PUA. I'm not a PUA. They are called AFCs until they actually develop the attraction skills.

[doppelgaenger]

Cain if you want to learn something about attraction, you should try dating someone from foreign country.

[vashti]

What's AFC? "Another freakin' creep"?

[Cain]

What's AFC? "Another freakin' creep"?

Because anyone that takes the time to learn more about how attraction works is a creep, right?

It means "Average Frustrated Chump."

[vashti]

Meh, lighten up my friend... it was a joke.

[Cain]

Meh, lighten up my friend... it was a joke.

Hard to tell what is and isn't a joke now considering a good majority of you have spent most of the thread bashing this whole thing.