Are girls intimidate by good looking guys?

[Mish]

NO!
It's almost 4 years of waiting stupidly for a girl while watching her got into 2 r/s!

It sounds like what you need is confidence and good attraction and relationship building skills. If you have that, then nothing else matters.

[UKboy]

It sounds like what you need is confidence and good attraction and relationship building skills. If you have that, then nothing else matters.

Why would I need that if i have it.well,she did make it clear that she wasn't interested but I waited.My fault tho.

[Mish]

Why would I need that if i have it.well,she did make it clear that she wasn't interested but I waited.My fault tho.

Why wasn't she interested? What were her reasons?

[UKboy]

Why wasn't she interested? What were her reasons?

She said the abscence of chemistry.
But yes,I've to say that I'm a guy who really takes my time when it comes to girl.

[Mish]

She said the abscence of chemistry.
But yes,I've to say that I'm a guy who really takes my time when it comes to girl.

So it was the chemistry not the looks?

What do you believe wasn't working? Where do you believe things went wrong? These are tough questions to answer because there is probably no direct explanation that you'll have, but if you have any clues it could shed some light on areas where you might need to improve in the future.

[UKboy]

So it was the chemistry not the looks?

What do you believe wasn't working? Where do you believe things went wrong? These are tough questions to answer because there is probably no direct explanation that you'll have, but if you have any clues it could shed some light on areas where you might need to improve in the future.

I doubt anything went wrong,if anything truly,the wrong or the lack of chemistry.

Looks is just one superficial attributing factor but it's a pretty fact that most asians girls are insecure of themselve,not extremely but they tend to not want to see a 'standard' disparity between their partner and them.
But coming deeper,it could really just be because i'm not aggresive enough and i take too long a time.Like this girl whom i'm moving on now,she used to IM me alot,ask me about my past r/s which apparently i've none and would rush me to reply her IM faster.
Then she got with a bf and then broke off soon.I didn't want to go for her since there might be a high chances of rebound but who knows,she got together with a guy whom she met on facebook 2 months after that breakup.

To make it worst,i'm not the kind who tend to be easily attracted to girls.

You're right,there's isn't any real easy answer.I don't want to make known my intention too early because It's me to want to know the other party before getting into a r/s since it'll help me to do an evaluation check before commiting.But this would also mean killing my chances because I won't be the only person who's in the 'game'.

Your thoughts?

[vashti]

Mish - she said there was no chemistry. You can't "improve" that... there either IS chemistry, or there is not.

UKboy - I think you should try dating a bit more casually. Waiting for "the one" makes you too heavily invested in girls that aren't interested, as evidenced by your waiting around for a couple of years for a girl who didn't ever want you.

Only going after 2 girls who reject you isn't enough experience to determine you are doing something wrong, IMO.

[UKboy]

Mish - she said there was no chemistry. You can't "improve" that... there either IS chemistry, or there is not.

UKboy - I think you should try dating a bit more casually. Waiting for "the one" makes you too heavily invested in girls that aren't interested, as evidenced by your waiting around for a couple of years for a girl who didn't ever want you.

I know and would love too but now,I can't help but feel really apathetic towards r/s.

[vashti]

???

Apathetic means you don't care. If you don't care, why are you posting?

[UKboy]

???

Apathetic means you don't care. If you don't care, why are you posting?

Asking for the sake of Collective answers.
Apathetic as in "I'm not gonna spend much effort to do the chasing,if i get turn down twice,then too bad,move on"

[Gigabitch]

From now on you will rub your face with mutton fat to protect against frostbite and drink twice as much as any of these godrotten pisspots!

You know what, Lipp? I totally enjoy you. You're one of my favorite posters.

She said the abscence of chemistry.

Doom, right there. Waste if time.

[UKboy]

From now on you will rub your face with mutton fat to protect against frostbite and drink twice as much as any of these godrotten pisspots!

But hot guys doesn't suffer from frostbite.
[assuming he is]

[boobaa]

I have had girls trying to hit on me also, but I am bad responder. Anyway, now there are two cases where the girl is obvious she likes me but they distance away when I am trying to develop girlfriend/boyfriend relationship. Now I find there must be something wrong with me. Be honest, no need to blame others.

[lesa]

Ah, so it's the chemistry. You cannot do anything about that. Move on to another person until you find that chemistry.