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    Quote Originally Posted by Muffin Princess View Post
    Why? What's wrong with a man being attracted to another man? I'm surprised that homophobia is still so prevalent in this the 21st century, be a bit more tolerant. If he wants to be with other men, why does that affect you? I bet you wouldn't be complaining if this was a woman saying she's attracted to other women and likes watching lesbian porn, would you?
    A man isn't suppose to like another man, a man was made with a penis to enter a women's vagina, not to sword fight another dude. I'm actually very homophobic, whether they be female or male I don't agree with it, so yes to answer your question I would be complaining if a women said it. Thank you.
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    This thread has turned homo, literally..
    Pain is just weakness leaving the body...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Everlovin View Post
    I took a survey recently and it showed that 40% of all males have "bisexual tendencies"
    Hahah. A British friend of mine just did a survey and found that 100% of Americans are twins, based on all of the Americans he knows.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ransom_nite View Post
    This thread has turned homo, literally..
    I doubt your bi, your probably a closet gay who feels very uncomfortable with himself.

    Kind of like Lester Burnham's Marine corp. neighbor in American Beauty.

    I hope you accept yourself and find peace and love in your life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ransom_nite View Post
    A man isn't suppose to like another man, a man was made with a penis to enter a women's vagina, not to sword fight another dude. I'm actually very homophobic, whether they be female or male I don't agree with it, so yes to answer your question I would be complaining if a women said it. Thank you.
    A man can like whoever he likes, what business is it of yours who people sleep with or fall in love with? A gay / bisexual person can't help who they're attracted to any more than you can.
    I wish I could be more like everyone else on this thread and ignore your sick and intolerant comment.

    By the way, 'women' is a plural, like 'men', there is no such thing as 'a women', that's like saying 'a houses' or 'a mice'. Whilst you're learning not to hate people, learn to speak properly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aeradalia View Post
    Wonder what the stats are for women?
    I reckon it's probably higher for women. From my experience, women seem more able to see when another woman is sexy or pretty or whatever than men can with other men, and women seem more comfortable with physical contact with the same sex; kissing and hugging their girlfriends for example. I actually believe that most people have bisexual tendancies, whether they admit it or not. If it's on a scale of 1 to 5 where heterosexual is 1 and homosexual is 5, I bet most people will be somewhere between 2 and 4. I'd probably put myself on a 2.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ransom_nite View Post
    This thread has turned homo, literally..
    Homosexuality has a genetic basis, Ransom. You don't have to like it, but it does seem to have some kind of evolutionary benefit else (for obvious reasons), the trait would have died out.

    Dolphins, monkeys also exhibit homosexuality in their societies.

    You don't have to like it. It doesn't need to be your preference. But if you don't want to discuss it, there are tons of other threads on this site. Get out of this one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aeradalia View Post
    Wonder what the stats are for women?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Muffin Princess View Post
    A gay / bisexual person can't help who they're attracted to any more than you can.
    Agrees... got beat up A LOT in high school in the shower rooms... tried to not look, couldn't really help it. Finally just started getting dressed in the stalls. Even then, they would try to beat me when I came back out..

    I did finally fight back... but still felt it wasn't right that I was hated so much.

    Quote Originally Posted by Muffin Princess View Post
    I actually believe that most people have bisexual tendancies, whether they admit it or not. If it's on a scale of 1 to 5 where heterosexual is 1 and homosexual is 5, I bet most people will be somewhere between 2 and 4. I'd probably put myself on a 2.
    Not sure where I'd be on the scale... but I'm just as apt to find women attractive as men... and feel equally drawn to both.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aeradalia View Post
    Agrees... got beat up A LOT in high school in the shower rooms... tried to not look, couldn't really help it. Finally just started getting dressed in the stalls. Even then, they would try to beat me when I came back out..
    I feel very sorry you experienced this. There is no excuse for what your were subjected to. I would have reported this to the police and the school principal. If no action was taken that school would be named after me in no time!

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    I haven't been able to sleep for days because I dream about my ex wife every night... I think I'm going crazy. Either I don't sleep, or I wake up every morning almost in tears. I hate it.
    Well then you should go and meet your ex wife. That would stop all the dreams. For further advice, write to [email]mssrelations@gmail.com[/email]

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    Quote Originally Posted by ransom_nite View Post
    A man isn't suppose to like another man, a man was made with a penis to enter a women's vagina, not to sword fight another dude. I'm actually very homophobic, whether they be female or male I don't agree with it, so yes to answer your question I would be complaining if a women said it. Thank you.
    Bah. Naturally I find this after he's left. Maybe he'll check this thread when he returns... in a month.

    Why do you care? I understand how it might be offensive if another male hit on you and continued to do so after you expressed discomfort, but beyond that, why are you at all concerned with another person's sexuality? I find it very bizarre. I know this is becoming cliche, but it really makes me wonder if maybe you feel this way because somewhere deep down you're somewhat attracted to males. Why else would it even register in your head?

    Eh. This whole nature stance is a very poor way to defend bigotry. Nature has rigged a whole series of pitfalls to prevent us from overpopulating and spreading like wildfire. We negate most of these through science. If you really are so concerned about staying true to nature I suggest you turn down any and all medical treatment. I also suggest that you give up all forms of transportation beyond your own two feet. Oh, and start growing your own food. It isn't natural to just walk into a store and buy a loaf of bread or a slab of beef. Nix that. Don't grow food. Go out and pick berries.
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    Losing the person you love isn't just a break up. Your losing your best friend AND your soul mate. But look at the cause of the break up. Ofcourse your hurting, and it will for sooo long. I was tortured with dreams of my ex boyfriend after our break up, I'd wake up and sob my heart out till i couldn't cry no more. Then cry myself to sleep. But they WILL go away one day, maybe you should see your doctor. You seem depressed.

    All the best, you seem an amazing person. You will find peace one day. xxx

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