Interesting reaction to my breakup

[Jason114]

To make a long story short I was with my gf for over a year and we broke up 3 times in the last 3 months. She pretty much broke up with me everytime.. The 1st 2 times I couldnt get through half a day without breaking down, I felt heartbroken and depressed. After our recent breakup last week it really doesnt bother me at all. I do think about it sometimes but that horrid feeling is not there anymore. Why is this? After getting back together for a month and then breaking up again help me get over it? Im confused...

[carl1222]

maybe it's a gift from the "enough is enough" hormone!

Consider yourself lucky (many aren't) and find a girl who is far less interested in games.

Carl.

[The Godfather]

Yes indeed, count your blessings. So many wish they could feel what you're feeling after a breakup. If I had to guess It's just your minds way of saying "after the first 2 times, I expected this"

[Aeradalia]

Sometimes when you've been hurt enough times by someone you put less emotional investment in that person. I know I was married for 5 years and had rough times towards the end.... When he asked for a divorce, I agreed and didn't feel much of anything. Maybe just a little sad, but I wasn't broken up about it.. I pretty much expected it.