I have strong feeling for my friend but she has a boyfriend.....

[evalistinho]

But now she is moving away for a couple of months to go to school.

They have been together for 4 months and i always kept my feelings inside in order not to make it awkward between us. I was waiting until she was single again.

Now that she is moving, should i just tell her how i felt about her the whole time? I feel like i have nothing to lose now that she is moving, or is this a bad move?

[vashti]

Do you anticipate remaining friends, or does her move mean that this is the end of your friendship?

If you are pretty much done anyway, you have nothing to lose. however, I don't know that you can call this a real "friendship". Friends don't harbor secret wishes to be lovers.

[evalistinho]

Do you anticipate remaining friends, or does her move mean that this is the end of your friendship?

If you are pretty much done anyway, you have nothing to lose. however, I don't know that you can call this a real "friendship". Friends don't harbor secret wishes to be lovers.

No the move isnt going to end the friendship. She is not moving that far away and she told me its probably going to be for like a year.

What did you mean by its not a real friendship?

[Illusional]

personally i think that she'd shut you down because she's already in a relationship. what honest girl would get with another man while she already has one?

raverboy

[Jay T]

Unfortunately for you the timing is bad.

She WILL shut you down because she is already seeing someone else; if she doesn't, and dumps the guy to go out with you, are you sure you want to be dating that kind of woman?

If you two are truly close friends, her moving will not end the friendship, and you can wait to tell her.