Time to Make a Choice!!!

[Fawn]

Well on Wednesday I got into a fight with the bf. Mostly argues about the fact that I prefer to relax and watch movies instead of going out all night. I'm completely tired after school (plus the Med's I take make me tired). Sure I go out with him, but I can't expect to do it every time I see him. Plus, he called me lazy. Now he knows the problems I have. I can't get off Med's or switch (long story), which he all knows. Yet he still calls me lazy. So I tell him to stop. He gets mad, I get pissed. Then we both have only talked to each other online or by txt message.

So, we decided to go on a break right now. But, being on this break has made me realise that I am just as happy without him. So I was thinking maybe I should just break it off. We've been going out for 2mths and a 1/2.

So what do you all think? A month back I posted that I almost broke up with him after a month because he was being weird. So I want y'all opinions??? Should I take that chance and work through it? or just let it go?

[Clifton]

well i can only speak from a male perspective on it, but i just know to me- it doesnt really matter where i am, i was just as happy sitting on the couch holding my girl than going out and doing anything, it just wasnt a matter of where, but it was who- i was with her and thats all that mattered, and resorting to calling someone lazy who is in your position is pretty childish, but im sure the females here will have something more helpful to say.

[Zekk_T_Strife]

It doesn't sound like he has your happiness in mind at all. To him if you don't go out then you're an asshole regardless of your inability or lack of desire to do so. He obviously doesn't know or attempt to know what you want. I'd say if you see you're just as happy without him and have had problems before then ditch the fool. A relationship is work but it's supposed to be rewarding, this one isn't. It's just making you get stressed over his crap.

[Clifton]

i second that, if you are happy without him, zekks right- hes not doing anything but giving you stress

[Zekk_T_Strife]

zekks right

Mmm, I love hearing that.

[Fawn]

You guys are right though... i just seemed to be getting more stressed when I'm with him.

Any girls opinions on this one?

[Fawn]

UPDATE

Well, we had this very long talk and we sorted out our feelings and anything that was bothering us.

He really wants to make this work and I want to give him that chance. So I guess I'll find out and see

[squirrley]

Fawn-how come this stress is still around? Finals are over-what gives? And how many chances are you going to give him girl???

[Fawn]

Finals aren't over for him or me. Were both in school for the summer.

Honestly I don't know how many chances I'm going to give him. But all I know is I'm happy when I'm with him, I care about him and we've talked about all the issues with name calling, etc. He knows if he crosses the line even once, its really going to be the end, no matter what. Last and final chance this is or I'm out the door.

[squirrley]

As long as you got your ducks in a row sweetie and he knows you mean business-I guess you know if youre happy with him thats what matters! Just dont let him walk on you.

[Breezy18]

I really don't know your situation all that well, Fawn so I don't want to offer an opinion just for the sake of an opinion. But I will say this, I admire your tenacity girl!

[Fawn]

Squirley Just dont let him walk on you.

I promise I won't let him... and if he does he's going to get sacked in the balls. lol

Breeze But I will say this, I admire your tenacity girl!

Thanks Breeze

[Clifton]

tenacity, thats a neat word

[Fawn]

Yeah, isn't it? lol..

tenacity means determination

[squirrley]

shes determined to straighten this lad out damnit! You go girl!