My ex tried to find me

[mistynbenjamin]

My husband and I share an email account so you could imagine my husbands surprise that my ex was looking for me on reunion.com -- mind you we've been broken up for over 10 years. And he wasn't even my boyfriend, he was just some guy I slept with in college. The "ex" is now married.

No actual contact has been made. We pay for a service on reunion.com so we know he did try to find me. I just don't want him to continue because it's just going to cause issues in my marriage.

I have not seen or talked to my "ex" in over 10 years.

I think I will email him (his email is on his reunion.com page) and tell him hi but go away. ???

I just don't want any drama.

[lesa]

How is he contacting you through a reunion service whatever possibly causing drama in your marriage? Is your marriage at a fragile point?

Wouldn't you responding to tell him to go away causing possible drama? Just ignore him and delete the message. I don't understand the issue here.

[IndiReloaded]

He hasn't actually contacted you.

Sounds to me like YOU are the one starting things. Let it go, this is how affairs start.