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  1. 19-01-09, 07:40 AM #1
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    Is all gal change bf like changing cloth?

    Is it worth to to love a girl? we are college student age bout 21yr old

    that she did't even told you, that she want to break up with you and while with you, she is even dating with another guy who is younger than her by 5yrs, while with me and do all those couple stuff infront of me...

    When I confront her, she say, its just complicated, you won't understand either... I was like so hurt, (what she means is, I am noob in love, yeah do admit abit, it was my 1st love)...

    she told me, the guy show her, that he love her very much infront of me during an outing, in that outing, she was like dishing me out of the scene..

    I am just curious, she isn't been far to me at all, my friend told me, she is those selfish type of girl and she admit she is a bitch? I was like speechless at that time... I scolded her at all, I just say... if you really love him more than I... I wish you never ever hurt him at all, coz his current bf.. was just 16yrs old..

    in my country...the general avg matured level is bout 21yrs old?

    is she worth it to give a second chance? I mean if they broke up again... should I slide in?

    Advise are welcome & if you feel like shooting me wussy..you are most welcome too ...

    hmm..but then again, I am afraid she will do it again.. she has a history of flirting with guys.. and make their relationship sour.. (I mean the other guy and his gf)... btw, she is good a seducing...
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    Quote Originally Posted by zx88 View Post
    she is even dating with another guy who is younger than her by 5yrs
    This is just creepy, but then again theres people in my life not far off of this.

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    No, you should not slide in. You should walk away and don't look back. She's a bad girl and she's going to mess you up.
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    What language is the ****ing title in? I don't believe he is a college student. Usually I just take someone's word for it but I don't believe it here. No one can type like a 12 year old and be a 20+ college student.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Only-virgins View Post
    What language is the ****ing title in? I don't believe he is a college student. Usually I just take someone's word for it but I don't believe it here. No one can type like a 12 year old and be a 20+ college student.
    do you have a problem with it?

    why not try and correct my spelling mistake? instead of shooting ppl down..


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    Quote Originally Posted by zx88 View Post
    Hmm, but she is the one who gave me inspiration to achieve greater thing...

    I feel so alive and energetic while with her.
    People come into our lives to teach us all sorts of things. Doesn't mean a romantic relationship with them is a good idea.

    So many people screw things up b/c they don't know when to say "thanks, that is enough".
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    Quote Originally Posted by IndiReloaded View Post
    People come into our lives to teach us all sorts of things. Doesn't mean a romantic relationship with them is a good idea.

    So many people screw things up b/c they don't know when to say "thanks, that is enough".
    Sometimes you meet people whose sole purpose in life is to serve as a warning to others.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lite View Post
    Sometimes you meet people whose sole purpose in life is to serve as a warning to others.
    That's a great quote.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lite View Post
    Sometimes you meet people whose sole purpose in life is to serve as a warning to others.
    I used to go out with one
    Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
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    Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
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    Is that the biting chick? LOL, what a weird thing to discover about someone. That's got my vote for 'weirdest dates'. Did you call her Ms. Lecter when you broke up?
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    Quote Originally Posted by IndiReloaded View Post
    Is that the biting chick? LOL, what a weird thing to discover about someone. That's got my vote for 'weirdest dates'. Did you call her Ms. Lecter when you broke up?
    Haha, I should've. I admit though I secretly rejoiced when the guy after me dumped her and kept some of her stuff.
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