For Those Trying To 'Win Someone Back'....

[bluesummer]

.....OR considering taking someone back......

I feel the need to rant. Listen here broken hearted ones:

If you got out of a relationship for any of the following reasons:

1. You cheated or were cheated on
2. There was verbal/emotional/physical abuse of any kind
3. You broke up with them specifically to date someone else or vice versa

.....then you don't belong together. Move on. Stop whining about it and pining over that person. Because if any of those situations apply to you, either you or them have issues that need to be worked on before entering another relationship, and you CERTAINLY do not belong together. Love doesn't overcome all, and in these situations it certainly shouldn't.

If anyone can think of any other things to add to the list, please feel free.

It just gets pathetic listening to people again and again crying 'How Do I Get Him/Her Back?' when it's RIDICULOUSLY OBVIOUS to even the simple-minded that the relationship wasn't healthy in the first place.

You can't 'fix' other people (see 'Shining Knight Syndrome' thread). You can't convince someone to love you when you've been a douchebag (and they deserve better than you, anyways).

Please think about your situation before you considered posting a thread about your circumstance. If any of the following applies, you're wasting everyone's time and duly deserve royal flamage.

[Indignant]

AMEN blue!

[bluesummer]

Hey, someone had to say it.

[Cbrider]

But I Really Like Her!

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

I think this should be stickied to the broken hearts forum. They really are annoying.

[Bo]

break ups aren't THAT simple though. And they're definitely not that easy

[ransom_nite]

Well stated Blue, yeahh this should be stickied like Nash said Would be helpful for those dealing with those problems.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

Well stated Blue, yeahh this should be stickied like Nash said Would be helpful for those dealing with those problems.

Who the hell is Nash? I am insulted!

Heh heh.

[Cbrider]

Who the hell is Nash? I am insulted!

Heh heh.

Sounds like some WWF wrestler tbh ...........LadieNISHA

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

Isnt Nash the last name of a basketball player? Steve Nash?

[ransom_nite]

Isnt Nash the last name of a basketball player? Steve Nash?

Sorry Nisha haha, I wasn't completely concentrating when writing that post, my apologies, you know I love you anywho Nash is actually a guy I knew in high school.

[Gribble]

But Blue! It was only after I ****ed her sister and her mom that I realized just how much I loved her!!

[Cbrider]

Isnt Nash the last name of a basketball player? Steve Nash?

Yeah, he plays for the Phoenix Suns and use to sport a dirty mullet.

[Lite]

break ups aren't THAT simple though. And they're definitely not that easy

They are that simple, and they're easier if you do what you have to when you should, rather than if you wait until you're pushed to an edge.

[UKboy]

They are that simple, and they're easier if you do what you have to when you should, rather than if you wait until you're pushed to an edge.

Exactly,they're that simple.
And usually,as someone has mentioned before,it's the feeling that makes the 'relationship' last longer than they should.
Many people are incapable of making right and weighty decision under the effect of emotion.At that point of time,that nature of the relationship has already degraded into an unhealthy parasitic relationship.They are hanging on for the sake of hanging on with no true genuine purpose.