are there actually girls out there who truly care if someone is problemed and hurting

[nt halley]

or are they just too self centered these days?

[Junket]

The hell are you talking about?

[Lite]

English mother****er. Do you speak it?

[1averagejoe]

There are assholes, bitches, douche bags, idiots, and weirdos in this world...

But there are just as many, if not more "normal" people.

[Indignant]

i think the main question is what is your problem and why are you hurting, and not self-pity.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

Problemed? LOL

[Cbrider]

[bluesummer]

I think plenty of women care about people who have problems and/or are hurting inside. I try to support my fiance, my family, and my friends going through rough times. I've even cared for strangers.

However, if you're asking would a girl be interested in someone with issues, I should hope the answer is no. It's not her job to play mother to some hurting soul who needs to get their shit together before they get in a relationship.

[indian_bull]

yes i think there girls out there who truly care if someone is problemed and hurt. it all depnds on the upbringing

[indian_bull]

Hey summer i think you are a very matured person with great moral values.i am very much impressed with ur opinion on the subject.
cheers

I think plenty of women care about people who have problems and/or are hurting inside. I try to support my fiance, my family, and my friends going through rough times. I've even cared for strangers.

However, if you're asking would a girl be interested in someone with issues, I should hope the answer is no. It's not her job to play mother to some hurting soul who needs to get their shit together before they get in a relationship.

[swargolet]

I am guessing the reason nt_halley posted this is because he/she was hurt by a girl and it probably seems to them that the girl doesnt even care and isnt making any effort to help him/her through the problems.

If you are asking this because you went through a breakup and you feel like your ex doesnt care thay you are hurting then you should say so. A lot of times if it the relationship didnt end on really bad terms then the ex probably does feel bad that you are hurting but it isnt their responsibility to make you feel better. Sorry to say this but they probably just want you out of their life so they can move on. This would actually be good also since it would teach you to support yourself and find ways to make yourself feel better.

[Gigabitch]

I don't care if someone is problemed. I am just too self-centered.