I am dying to get married to my man…and I am trying to think of a way to tell him how we can do it, but keep it cheap. We have a priest that’s a friend that can marry us, we can use the church for free, I have a white dress that I can use, and he has a black suit he can wear. I really want to bring this up, but I am not sure how, as a man, you would feel about it. I already wear an engagement ring and wedding band that hes given me…so I am not worried about not getting married…I just really wanna do it now, and not wait until “we have the money” like he keeps saying.
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04-02-09, 12:36 AM #1
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bring it up or not
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04-02-09, 12:45 AM #2
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Waiting until you have the money is a bullshit excuse. You already have a kid together. You could get married with two witnesses and have a reception later.
Again, though, I must say that the fact that you two can't even discuss this openly is a big red flag.Spammer Spanker
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04-02-09, 12:55 AM #3
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he wants me to have the perfect wedding...so I wanna let him know that I dont need all that...I want simple!!!
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04-02-09, 12:56 AM #4
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The perfect wedding would happen before your kid is five.
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04-02-09, 01:12 AM #5
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wasn't it 5 months, Giga?
Originally Posted by Gigabitch
The male is a domestic animal which, if treated with firmness, can be trained to do most things
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04-02-09, 01:33 AM #6
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ay mija, no te quiere casar!
lol sorry that's my novela impression.baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.
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Yeah, now, but how long is he going to wait? Four more years? Originally Posted by Indignant
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04-02-09, 02:20 AM #8
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I hope not. should I bring it up? Should I ask him his intentions?
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you have to be comfortable enough to discuss any sort of issues with him.
The male is a domestic animal which, if treated with firmness, can be trained to do most things
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04-02-09, 09:19 PM #10
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i brought it up and it went really well...we are discussing plans!
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Congratulations! Hope it goes well for you Originally Posted by annoyed23
i brought it up and it went really well...we are discussing plans!.
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