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    Pictures of me

    I have been traveling a lot for work and wanted to take some sexy pictures of me for my boyfriend for valentines day. We have been in a lot of arguments lately about strip clubs/porn and I just want to make sure I'm not sending the wrong message. Do you think he would enjoy? Or do guys look at porn for other reasons?

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    i don't think guys would enjoy nude pics of their SOs as much as random strangers.
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    I enjoyed receiving nude pics and a nice sexy video of my gf when I was dating her, and whenever I needed to "relax" I would almost always use those pics and video instead of online porn. I'd say 95% of the time Id use her stuff over porn since i felt more of a connection to it then to some random person.

    But then you may ask, why did I even use other stuff then? Well because I liked variety. I think it is a nice gesture but if he is in the relationship for the right reason then he will probably enjoy a very romantic date then a romantic evening with you. I know I would prefer that. Something special is always better.

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    I think that might be a good idea
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    I think you should ask yourself if you're willing for those photos or that video to end up on the internet should you ever piss him off...
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    Don't do it. These things NEVER end well. I can't really understand how you could even consider it unless you were making them for a man you'd been married to for about 30 years.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    Don't do it. These things NEVER end well. I can't really understand how you could even consider it unless you were making them for a man you'd been married to for about 30 years.
    true story, my friend took naked pics of his fiancee with her legs spread and such, and was showing them around to everyone including his parents it was an LDR. when she finally came home to meet his parents they and also all of his friends treated her as a total slut.
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    No, no, hell no. Don't do it.
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    i think thats ridiculous. I have taken many pictures of my recent ex and i would never dream of publishing them on the net, no matter that i am hurting and missing her and sometimes angry. Its a matter of what the level of respect in the relationship is and the type of person he is. I think a guy likes to think that his girlfriend/partner is willing to do something sort of dirty

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    Quote Originally Posted by kak View Post
    i think thats ridiculous. I have taken many pictures of my recent ex and i would never dream of publishing them on the net, no matter that i am hurting and missing her and sometimes angry. Its a matter of what the level of respect in the relationship is and the type of person he is. I think a guy likes to think that his girlfriend/partner is willing to do something sort of dirty
    Same here. I've got stacks of films and pictures that won't ever be seen by anybody else. Some of the people here must have gone out with some utter, utter wankers!

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    Quote Originally Posted by kak View Post
    i think thats ridiculous. I have taken many pictures of my recent ex and i would never dream of publishing them on the net, no matter that i am hurting and missing her and sometimes angry. Its a matter of what the level of respect in the relationship is and the type of person he is. I think a guy likes to think that his girlfriend/partner is willing to do something sort of dirty

    Thats nice that your a better posting, but the truth is, we don't know anything about this guy, and for the most part, its easy to argue that most guys are a-holes. I'd NOT support giving out naked pictures/videos of yourself, and do something.. safer. Yes, it would be a nice gesture, but be ready to have your pics sent to the net if you piss him off (ESPECIALLY, if you happen to break up.)

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    Do it!!

    When I was overseas my girlfriend sent me sexy, naked, pictures of herself and I absolutely frothed over them. It sounds a bit shallow, but it definitely made me feel more in love with her. Guys really respond to that sort of thing.
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    Damn it, I walked in here hoping for pictures.
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    sorry guys no pictures. Thank you for the advice.

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