She dumped me! Wife is acting "weird".

[devastated]

For the record, I'm crying inconsolably as I type this.

My wife of 12 years dumped me 8 weeks ago. I'm besides myself. I keep calling her repeatedly all day/night, even in the middle of the night to get her back and nothing has worked. She screams at me, she tells me that the mere thought of me makes her want to throw up and that she doesn't want to live in a house with me EVER again. I'm starting to get very annoyed at her calling me a pervert before hanging up the phone on me. Before she left she said to me: "Do you see this remote and your playboy channel? SHOVE 'EM YOU Fing PERVERT!!" She threw the remote at me and broke it on my chest. I told her we needed to spice up our sex life a bit. We've tried a few things, but lately she doesn't get a sweat out of me anymore. I do love her. We've been together since we were 20.

Meantime the dirty dishes are getting all piled up with flies and bugs all over them. I have lost 30 pounds since she left. I don't even have clean clothes anymore! I don't even know how to run the laundry machine! I don't eat, all I do is cry like a sissy all day, calling and begging her to come back to me, that I'm sorry. She is at her mom's now. She tells me that it is very unfortunate that she "loves me" and that she is "in love" with me, but that she cannot live with me again. I got into her mom's house and checked her computer and I found out she has been visiting mate1.

What's your advice experts? I really want her back. BADLY!

[carl1222]

Is this all about soft-core pornography???

[amazonian]

Are there any other problems in the marriage where "she acts weird"?

If its just the porn, suprisingly enough, SOME women feel that pornography is "cheating" - I've had this chat with LOTS of my female friends - some do, some don't. The one's who do feel very strongly about it.

If it is the only problem, do you need porn? Can you live without it for her? how important is it to you? Is it the only problem for her within the relationship? If you can't, you might as well move on and leave her alone - call sex hotline number instead of her! They're available day and night too!!

I mean, she left you over it, she obviously can't cope with it.

[doppelgaenger]

This is a troll.

[starbuck]

This is a troll.

Ding! Ding! Ding! Ding! Ding!

[amazonian]

whats a troll?

[Gigabitch]

Somebody that logs on to post incendiary content for their own amusement. Basically, a bullshit artist. Or, in this case, since he's not that talented, a bullshit stylist.

Sorry, devastated. Putting that part in about not knowing how to run the washer put it over the top. Nobody believes you're real.

[IndiReloaded]

Flies on the dishes did it for me.

[doppelgaenger]

It was the way it was written that made it obvious for me... not necessarily the details.

[andora]

You are not doing dishes and laundry because you dont know how to or because you are hurt??? Give her sometime to breathe, dont look too desparate a 12 year old marriage is no joke?

[vashti]

I don't think it's a troll. i think it is creative spam.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

I'm laughing at how the remote broke on his chest. She must be super woman. Either that, or that was a cheap remote.

[andora]

I still believe it is a true story......am still loling

[The_bobb]

...I got into her mom's house and checked her computer...

Creepy.....

[Chris2009]

You lost 30 pounds in just 8 weeks? Are you overweight?
I would say, stop porn, keep losing weight, get in shape and you'll make it