Originally Posted by
Lightkeeper
There is a woman I work with who has just become the one I tell all my secrets to. So I fancy her quite a lot, but don't want to lose the friendship.
There is a very crude saying that sometimes rings through - "Don't $h1t where you eat" - I would proceed with a great deal of caution because you could lose more than your friendship - working with an ex is not a very comfortable situation especially if it someone you work closely with. However if the prospect of interfering with your job isn't an issue . . .
Originally Posted by
Lightkeeper
How can I gauge her true feelings without messing up the friendship?
You could always put it on the line and ask her or when she talks about finding you a new girlfriend you could mention you have someone in mind for that "position" and see how she reacts.
Originally Posted by
Lightkeeper
She is going on a long holiday soon, would like to get her a present to take. What would be suitable?
If she doesn't have a camera I am a big fan of the disposable camera. Tell her it's so she can share her trip with you once she gets back.
I think the mistake a lot of us make is thinking the state-appointed shrink is our friend. - Jack Handy