I girl invited me to her apartment, but it didn't happen!!!!

[lesa]

I should modify that a bit ... sure, lots of people get drunk and have sex ... but having sex with a VERY drunk STRANGER put's you on very thin ice in the eyes of the law. I would go a bit farther and say you shouldn't have sex with a very drunk girl unless you already have a sexual relationship with her.

Carl.

I forgot that this was a stranger. Very good point. Why do people want to sex complete strangers anyway? Who knows what their sti status could be.

[carl1222]

I forgot that this was a stranger. Very good point. Why do people want to sex complete strangers anyway? Who knows what their sti status could be.

Hahaha lesa ... and I was thinking "Why do people want to sex a falling down drunk?"

For girls, she's getting a semi-limp noodle at best.

For guys, it should be statutory rape ... because she is just lying there like a statue! Besides, getting head just to be followed by her throwing up in my lap is NOT sexy!!!!

Carl.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

Off topic:

Why is it called rape if you have sex with a willing young girl?

[lesa]

Off topic:

Why is it called rape if you have sex with a willing young girl?

CYA

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

Cya?



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[lightning88]

Off topic:

Why is it called rape if you have sex with a willing young girl?

I assume by young you mean underage. And Its called rape because underage girls can't legally consent

[carl1222]

Off topic:

Why is it called rape if you have sex with a willing young girl?

That's right on topic, Nisha.

It comes down to your definition of "willing."

Example: If a girl who is not a slut has a 12 pack of beer and slurs "anyone want to f**k me? climb aboard!" is she willing? We can argue that she put herself in that situation, but the law protects her because at that moment, the alcohol has made her out of her mind and therefore unable to give consent. So the law reasons ... not that she regrets her drunken folly (that's NOT rape) but that her behavior is so bizarrely out of character that she was not behaving sanely.

Same reasons that it's rape to have sex with a profoundly retarded girl or a psychotic ... she is not able to consent because she can't appreciate the the quality and consequences of her actions in ANY remotely rational way.

It's a high very hurdle for sure, Nisha ... 99.99% of drunken sexual encounters are not rape unless force is used or she says "no." The law doesn't protect women who are simply made too stupid by their drunkedness not to respond to their lowered inhibitions. But here, we are talking about a girl too drunk to get home on her own who gives in to having sex with a total stranger.

Carl.

[lightning88]

That's right on topic, Nisha.

It comes down to your definition of "willing."

Example: If a girl who is not a slut has a 12 pack of beer and slurs "anyone want to f**k me? climb aboard!" is she willing? We can argue that she put herself in that situation, but the law protects her because at that moment, the alcohol has made her out of her mind and therefore unable to give consent. So the law reasons ... not that she regrets her drunken folly (that's NOT rape) but that her behavior is so bizarrely out of character that she was not behaving sanely.

Same reasons that it's rape to have sex with a profoundly retarded girl or a psychotic ... she is not able to consent because she can't appreciate the the quality and consequences of her actions in any remotely rational way.

It's a high very hurdle for sure, Nisha ... 99.99% of drunken sexual encounters are not rape. The law doesn't protect women who are simply too stupid by their drunkiness not to respond to their lowered inhibitions. But here, we are talking about a girl too drunk to get home on her own who gives in to having sex with a total stranger.

Carl.

he/she said :off topic then the way he/she said young girl,I think he/she meant underage not drunk.

[lightning88]

Cya?



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cya=see you or goodbye.

(idk why he said it either)

[Mish]

This reminds me of a time when I was raped by a girl once. I was unwilling but she forced me to do it.




The shame.

[Lostalien]

She's not underage..... She was only drunk....
I got kinda excited when I went to her room because I've single for long... coz I have depression and I tend to be very isolated.... now I feel like crying..

[carl1222]

he/she said :off topic then the way he/she said young girl,I think he/she meant underage not drunk.

Underage sex is what's called a crime of strict liability ... consent is NO defense.

Carl.

[carl1222]

CYA means "Cover Your Ass"!!! hehehe

[carl1222]

She's not underage..... She was only drunk....
I got kinda excited when I went to her room because I've single for long... coz I have depression and I tend to be very isolated.... now I feel like crying..

All we are trying to say, lost, is that "only drunk" has emotional consequences for her. Even if she was rational enough to consent, imagine her waking up the next morning crying because she had sex with you, a total stranger ... would you feel good about that? Would you care??? Imagine her guilt and abject shame because she let that happen. Is getting your d**k waxed really more important than that?

Carl.

[Lostalien]

If you don't wanna believe is all good son of a b****

CYA means "Cover Your Ass"!!! hehehe