Oral Sex: how to tell if he's satisfied?

[UKboy]

If he says "dam i didn't know you had years of training"

[GPLOC]

Thrusting into the back of your throat and grabbing your hair, laying back ; all good signs keep up the good work haha

[Gigabitch]

Don't count on the thrusting and head-grabbing. Many guys have been trained NOT to do that, reinforced with threats of penile damage.

I'd say you can tell he's satisfied if he ever asks you for another one.

[Gribble]

If you get a mouthful of goo you done good, kid.

[Gribble]

If he says "dam i didn't know you had years of training"

That's a bit like saying "Damn, I didn't know you were such a cocksucking slut!"

[TheTooya]

nah i don't think men read into the pleasure that much,

I am going to have to disagree here. I have had a few amazing blow jobs, mostly meh blow jobs, and then the downright painful blow jobs.

There definitely is a difference in the quality of a blow job, obviously most important is there is never EVER teeth involved... *shivers*.

True, the end result is if the guy cums or not, but that doesn't mean the process behind making the guy cum is always the same.

Sometimes its fun to watch her lick it sideways, sometimes it feels better if she puts it entirely in her mouth, playing with it with her tongue... have I mentioned its never fun when theres teeth? Kk just checking.


With the thrusting or head grabbing, Gigabitch is right, I make a point to not do that. I have female friends that tell me from their end, it sucks when that happens, so I just refrain from it.

[raptor5618]

Agree that thrusting and grabbing the head are good signs. I know girls hate that so I might not push the head down but want too so I might touch your head.

The key is keep the teeth away unless he is a guy that asks for that. If it is good they will always find a way to work that into the sex rotation.

If you feel him pulling back that is a sign you are being too rough or the teeth are making contact so I think the thrusting is a good sign you got a good thing going.

Blast off is a good sign but depending on the situation guys can still do this even when it is not that good but you should be able to tell that it is not all that intense.

[Gribble]

Usually I just lie back and let her work while gently rubbing her back and shoulders. I don't do the head grabbing or the face-****ing.

As for what constitutes a good BJ? There are three things that really get me going. First, I like to see some tongue action. Lots of licking and kissing. More visually stimulating than anything else. Next, when you're bobbing up and down make a tight seal and go all the way up to the head. Nothing feels better than those tight lips contracting around the head while your tongue swooshes across the tip before you plunge back down. Lastly, if you need a breath don't just pull it out of your mouth. Suck hard and let it pop out then gasp. Be aware that if done correctly and at the right time you may need to shield your eyes or take cover as eruption is imminent.

[misombra]

ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.

[Indignant]

Usually I just lie back and let her work while gently rubbing her back and shoulders. I don't do the head grabbing or the face-****ing.

As for what constitutes a good BJ? There are three things that really get me going. First, I like to see some tongue action. Lots of licking and kissing. More visually stimulating than anything else. Next, when you're bobbing up and down make a tight seal and go all the way up to the head. Nothing feels better than those tight lips contracting around the head while your tongue swooshes across the tip before you plunge back down. Lastly, if you need a breath don't just pull it out of your mouth. Suck hard and let it pop out then gasp. Be aware that if done correctly and at the right time you may need to shield your eyes or take cover as eruption is eminent.

wow, what a great summary/educational material. not many men know how to put it in writing. kudos to you, mate!

[misombra]

it must've been good cause it grossed me out pretty well.

[Junket]

nah i don't think men read into the pleasure that much, it is what it is, the longer it takes the better but they are happy either way

You kidding?

No way.

I can ejaculate in about a minute if I tried, but it will be one of the most lackluster orgasms I'll ever have.

In fact timing is so key when it comes to the difference between a mediocre orgasm and a "my face is tingling" orgasm.

That's why it's important for me to have control, because if I'm being ridden, I don't have any control as to when I blow my load. She could hit one of those acute sensitive spots that triggers me to ejaculate which will cause me to try to stifle it and leave me spent but unsatisfied.

Eco, eco, eco.

You have a lot to learn.

[tigereyes12]

You kidding?
That's why it's important for me to have control, because if I'm being ridden, I don't have any control as to when I blow my load. She could hit one of those acute sensitive spots that triggers me to ejaculate which will cause me to try to stifle it and leave me spent but unsatisfied.

Of course, the same could be said for the woman. Is her orgasm somehow inferior?

[Gribble]

Of course, the same could be said for the woman. Is her orgasm somehow inferior?

Wait... Women orgasm?

[Aeradalia]

Of course, the same could be said for the woman. Is her orgasm somehow inferior?

Now... now tigereyes... let's not start a gender debate...

Quite frankly there is nothing more childish than the old "boys vs. girls" argument... the only thing missing would be "nah-nuh-nah-nuh-nah-nuh" and sticking one's tongue out.

Orgasms are equally potent in both genders and just as important to the person having them--- why? Because there is no way in hell you'll ever understand what it's like for the opposite gender to have an orgasm and neither will they ever possess that ability about you.

Essentially men seem to be pretty happy with theirs and women seem to be pretty happy when they get theirs as well.

What more is there to really talk about? How could you possibly argue when you can never acquire the experiences the opposing gender has... and neither can they about you?