Day Date?

[23mako]

I just met somebody I really like. We seem to have a lot in common and I love being around her. I met her at a party and we seemed to hit it off. I got her number and I want to ask her out, but haven't decided what to do yet. Here's the problem. I was thinking about asking her to lunch on Wednesday, but I can't decide whether or not that is a bad idea. Is it a bad idea for a first real date to be a day date? Would it be better to wait until Friday night when I can take her somewhere? We are in our mid twenties.

[carl1222]

Monday is a bit short notice for a date on Wednesday.

[vashti]

Lunch dates are perfectly acceptable for a first date. In fact, I usually sugest lunch because it is easier to cut the date short if things aren't going well, and it is cheaper, which is good in case you don't like her.

[lesa]

Lunch date is better than a long evening date to me. The first date should be short, easy, and cheap. You guys are just checking out the potential for chemistry here. The second date I what I always consider the "real" date. So in my opinion you are doing great. Even a quick coffee break is appropriate at this time.

[somethingelse]

i think a date day would be fine. i think it's best for a first date. very neutral and easier to end if things dont go well. either or, i think it's a good idea

[pinkpolkadot]

lunch isnt a bad date. i say try it.

[LoveHurts09]

have u seen "just friends"? :p