I can't move on from my ex

[Drift Queen]

My ex boyfriend finished with me at the end of january and since then my whole world has fallen apart he completely hates me now because aparentely i was obsessive with him... i just wanted him to talk to me because he finished with me by text of all ways! he didnt even meet me face to face the thing that really hurts me is that a week later he got a new girlfriend and he's still with her now..... we were together for 10 months and we had one stupid huge row and that was it.... does anyone think i could possibly get him back? even though he refuses to speak to me? advice would be helpful thanks

[misombra]

leave him alone. find another guy. don't be so clingy.

[Drift Queen]

I can't move on from him...... he was my dream guy and i was the one who threw him away.... i just want to get him back... been friends again would be a start but he won't even speak to me!

[misombra]

well then good luck with that.

[Drift Queen]

I thought this was supposed to be a helpful site....... obviously i was wrong!

[misombra]

i tried helping. you didn't listen.

oh wait you want us to tell you what you want to hear! i get it.

stalk him until he marries you. have ten kids.

[Drift Queen]

You call that help? ppft...... you shouldn't be a mod either if your just going to be rude to anyone who is genuinely looking for help!

[misombra]

drift, i genuinely tried to help you. what would you like me to tell you...

[Drift Queen]

I don't know! how could i get back on his good side maybe? i just want to be his friend now i'd be happy with that i just miss him in my life!

[vashti]

You aren't going to get him back. If he was willing to break up with you after one fight, he obviously didn't care about you the same way you cared about him. He just used the fight as an excuse to break off with you because he probably didn't have the heart to do it any other way.

Misombra gave you good advice. You should move on. He already has.

[Drift Queen]

It was a big huge fight that was all my fault....... i let him down and humilated him in a big way so thats why he broke it off with me..... what yous don't understand is i'd be happy been his friend thats all i want now he was my rock in my life and i miss having him as a friend!

[vashti]

he completely hates me now because aparentely i was obsessive with him...

Look back over your posts in this thread, and then read this one. It sounds like maybe he was right. You need to respect that he has a right to decide who he interacts with. He isn't interested in interacting with you.

[misombra]

be a nice friend and leave him alone. the guy's already got another girlfriend!

[Drift Queen]

Yeah but what if she is just a rebound? he was the one who was asking me to move in with him, talking about marraige and babies, constantly telling me he loved me etc... all before that time i let him down i no i just hurt him in a big way and thats why i lost him....in a way i agree with what your saying that i should just let it go and move on but the other half of me wants to fight for this i dont give up in what i believe in

[misombra]

what was your fight about?