Hi

I have been giving negative energy and too much attention to the actions and words of my ex. We have a child together so I cannot just eliminate him entirely from my life.

I do feel however after his latest performance that enough is enough. I am due to marry my partner in a few months and being upset, annoyed or anything at his attempts to gain control over our lives are...in effect working. Its not fair on my new partner or me tho my new fella is completely understanding of the situation.

I acknowledge there are perhaps issues from my ex and our relationship that are unresolved. I don't have any desire to go over them again with him and open myself up to more aggrivation.
I just want to find a way to sever the wires he has to my buttons.

Any advice greatly appreciated.