"You are huge" Was that a lie?

[survivor08]

That is what this petite lady said to me when she saw what I was packing under the trousers. Never been told that before, I am comfortable with what God gave me, but she surprised me by saying that, and so I had to laugh and call bs on her.

What do you tell a girl once she says that? LOL....later I called bs on her and she reiterated that she never lies and why would she lie about such a thing....

I am not a big dude, maybe she was surprised to see the organ not being consistent with the rest of my physical size...

Do you women say this kind of crap to men because they think it is what all men want to hear? spare us please.

[vashti]

I don't know what is a bigger lie: that she said you are huge, or that you didn't enjoy her saying it.

[cewzp4]

Just take the compliment.

[Sweetypie02]

Have you ever stopped to think that maybe women say this "crap" because in our eyes, you ARE huge??? Or would you prefer being called tiny???

[survivor08]

The girl is Chinese, but she has dated men from different cultures....And V above is questioning what is a bigger lie....

when asked about it in conversation, if the girl is slim I just pick up their hand and measure their wrist thickness, that pretty much gives them an idea.

[Rollerderby]

God, men and their egos and their penises. They're pissed if they don't work, insulted if you compliment them, and worried if you don't. As long as you're making her cum in some way shape or form, just chillax.

[survivor08]

God, men and their egos and their penises. They're pissed if they don't work, insulted if you compliment them, and worried if you don't. As long as you're making her cum in some way shape or form, just chillax.

Chillax, lol. I am just having fun and posting about the things people say and do on dates, etc.

[Mish]

"You are huge" Was that a lie?

Not necessarily a lie. It could be that she really did mean that you are a little overweight.

[Aeradalia]

Heh... for a smaller woman... dick size definitions take on a different meaning. Some of my friends would say that 8 inches was just right... whereas, for me I favor a size much smaller and would certainly view 7 or 8 inches as 'huge.'

It just depends on the woman and what she is capable of handling to determine what she believes to be 'huge.'

For all you know... she was telling the truth and you just insulted her by essentially calling her a liar.

So take the damn compliment and be happy... sheesh...

[Rollerderby]

I'll have to see for myself in order to judge

[Lite]

I don't know what is a bigger lie: that she said you are huge, or that you didn't enjoy her saying it.

Actually, I find it rather awkward when a woman compliments my endowment. My self esteem was so shot from my first marriage that I thought there was something wrong with me. Once I started whoring myself out I received a lot of really nice compliments that I didn't (still don't) know how to take.

I will admit it is a bit of an ego stroke, but when a woman wants to be cruel your "manhood" is the first thing a woman goes for.

But, for a long time I figured I was of below average size, and that it wasn't pleasing to my wife, and that was maybe why she didn't want to sleep with me. (Rather than, you know, she has issues.) I've never really cared about it as long as my partner was happy. It's not like you can do anything about it that doesn't damage your bits.

[Lonely Island]

She prolly thought you were the smallest she ever had

So she said you were huge just to make you feel better

[vashti]

I will admit it is a bit of an ego stroke, but when a woman wants to be cruel your "manhood" is the first thing a woman goes for.

Is it? I always think of attacking intelligence.

[Lite]

Is it? I always think of attacking intelligence.

Typically I'm more intelligent than the people have dated. My wife is probably the only person I have been in a relationship with that I would consider smarter than I am.

[survivor08]

Typically I'm more intelligent than the people have dated. My wife is probably the only person I have been in a relationship with that I would consider smarter than I am.

This would bother some people. I have been with Phd candidates on down and I do think it is important to match up with some one in the same level intellectually, unless you have something to teach them otherwise.

case in point, my ex was not as book smart as me, but she was more street smart, and I found that attractive, but always would be dissappointed that sometimes she could not see things like I saw them and I am sure it was vice versa with her.


Today though, I am thinking that I could settle with someone who is lacking intellectually but makes up for it with heart and niceness....