I have been with my bf for almost 6 years. I recently moved in with him, since moving in we have fought constantly. I feel that he isnt ready for the next step, because of the way he does things, he doesnt want to get his own place, (sharing home with sibling), he doesnt care of himself, has be reminded of everything aka have you brushed your teeth.....honesltly it feels as if im taking a role of his parent when im supposed to be his gf. I just feel since moving in he doesnt realize what he should be doing as taking the relationship more serious rather than just liking like he is on his own. meaning before i moved in, he had move before me, and he was on his own for a year of our relationship, he was back in this hometown with his childhood friends doing what guys do. Which was fine. but now that im here, with nobody but him to interact with, since im not from his hometown. i thought he would tone it down. but he has and he acts like he is entitled to his nights outs with his friends, every weekend. We both have jobs, his schedule is late nights, he sleeps in til 12, goes in to work a couple of hours later, then comes home 8 hours later. when he arrives he hugs me , tells me he missed me, then blows me off to go to the computer and check his mail, spaces and books and chat with his friends. mean while i have been up since 8 am working, waking him up for work, and waiting for him to come back home. its seems like a lot of nagging which it probably is, but i just dont get him.