I'm lost,need help

[thegrudge]

Hi,,,how nice to be in love,but how bad is to be confused..
I like a girl and i know she does.I told her about my feelings but she refused to be in love again bez she was in love with another guy (it has been 5 month since there separation),she spent 7 years with him and when i heard that i was shoked.
All her female friends said that she likes me very much.We are always together,spending too much time talking about familly affairs,her life,mine and many other subjects, but she refuse to accept to have an other relation...what does it means?Does her view change with time?Do i have to wait and keep my feelings or am i in a no way out?
plz i need some help........thnk u.....

[Yggdrasil]

It means she doesn't want another relation right now. In other words: she doesn't want a rebound.

Simple as that. Smart girl if you ask me.

Suggestion: leave her be.

[Tim Jones]

It looks like you had it going pretty well, but just fumbled the ball...

In short... She is coming out of a very long relationship, and it will take a long time before she will trust someone else. You telling her your feelings was a disaster for a girl like this because it scared her which is exactly what she does not need right now...

My advice would be to just concentrate on listening to her and being a good friend. Good relationships always start with a good friendship first. For now, I would just concentrate on this and start dating someone else...

[onebighole]

Sounds like she needs a friend and feels safe with that.