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    Need help on cancer guy

    Hi there, i am new here and have a question which i hope to get some insight/advise.
    I have been dating this cancer guy, we are both in our 40's. We were taking it slow but communicate at least once a day and saw each other once in two weeks. To make a long story short, at our last get together he's been very loving... act more caring than ever.. etc. For about ten days after that he we kept on communicating as normal.. then wham... nothing!! Me getting upset because of the deafening silence wanted to know whats going on.. to this day, three weeks later still not a word.
    Now my question is: What's up with cancer men? Why not at least tell you when they done...
    could you guys give me insight please

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    Oh. I thought this was going to be a thread about dating a guy with cancer.

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    No clue.. I don't believe in this horsoscope stuff.

    I'd say if this isn't the first time this happend to you, you may want to review the choice of men you date, cancer or not.
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    my bf is a cancer. i don't think it has anything to do with your thing. sounds like he's not interested or he's into somebody else.
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    Why don't you just call him? Last I checked, all 12 zodiac signs knew how to answer the telephone. Well, except Pisces sometimes. All that water makes the phone short out sometimes...
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    Quote Originally Posted by IndiReloaded View Post
    Why don't you just call him? Last I checked, all 12 zodiac signs knew how to answer the telephone. Well, except Pisces sometimes. All that water makes the phone short out sometimes...
    LMFAO!!! hey, I'm part Pisces and I can use a telephone! Maybe it's the Aquarian half of me... but yes, as long as he has fingers and ears still in tact, it has nothing to do with his sign. I want to guess and say you're a leo, indi.

    OP you're not going to find much help here if you're tackling it from only the perspective of a horoscope sign. Maybe a bit more info, about him and you? I've never dated a Cancer, but the female's I've know who are Cancers are drama-ridden. But I think it has less to do with the sign, and more the fact that he just isn't that into you.
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    Nope, not Leo. I don't believe this horrorscope stuff either. The gravity from the building you sit in probably affects you more.
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    Indi, I would fall on the ground of a heart attack if I thought you believed in "horoscope stuff". Well, not unless some speeding car gets me first!!!!! LOL

    But still, you must know your sign.
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    Well, I still read them for fun in the newspaper, sometimes. Same for fortune cookies.
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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    Oh. I thought this was going to be a thread about dating a guy with cancer.
    So did I. Had I known this was just a bunch of whacked out astrology I never would have read it. I feel cheated.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gribble View Post
    So did I. Had I known this was just a bunch of whacked out astrology I never would have read it. I feel cheated.
    Yeah I immediately thought of that girl from "House" who always dated guys who were going to die.

    Goddamn star signs.
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