Why don't girls like me ?

[emma1234]

Sorry. That may have been a little harsh.

You can lead a horse to water, but you cant teach it to drink.

[BoredGeorge]

You asked for help, you got it, truckloads of it, and you cant accept it, it doesnt even seem that you have noticed that each poster has been in agreement with each other. It isnt in your control as to what they decide to do, but it is in your control to treat them as human beings and try being nice to them...

Failing that, you are probably just a whiney old bastard and will never suceed so should probably just give up and go live with your mother.

I already said that I was nice to them at the start. I am not old either.

What has each poster said that I have ignored ?

[Junket]

I already said that I was nice to them at the start. I am not old either.

What has each poster said that I have ignored ?

That you're trying too hard.

[vashti]

I don't know how you come off in person, but the title of this thread is so whiny, I can't imagine being attracted to its author.

[alovehangoverr]

I don't know how you come off in person, but the title of this thread is so whiny, I can't imagine being attracted to its author.

Seriously. I was instantly turned off.

Anyway..

You need to stop blaming women for being or not being this or that.. Stop blaming others when the fault likely rests with you. Whether it be with your choice of women or your bad attitude.

Seriously, look at all the women you've dated or tried to date-- what's the common factor between all of them. You.

So what's likely the problem?

You.

[L.L]

me... as I woman
hate the way you talk.... and your hook up reputation

you kept using mask... if you just want to date because of sex... then just date a slut(sorry......)

both girl and boy want to be love... if you try to be your self.. without looking like a jerk... someday you will find HER

good luck

btw I'm new here... nice to meet you

[Gigabitch]

Ugh. George, girls don't like you because they can smell the whore-stink on you. Seriously. Yuck, dude.

[Yggdrasil]

Sorry. That may have been a little harsh.

You can lead a horse to water, but you cant teach it to drink.

Harsh? Pfft.. this guy needs a reality check.. no need what so ever to appologize to him. You were putting it very mildly.

[Indignant]

once again, we need to see a pic before making any judgements. if you are ugly as fuk then we might probably have to comment on that and make suggestion as to how you can make yourself look more approachable.

[Thelovedoctor]

Something tells me that if you approach them the way you act here, then it's no wonder you're getting turned down and avoided like the plague with your"i'm desperate. please love me" kind of approach

You have that "it's never my fault" kind of attitude, which I'm sure some girls out there will agree with me when I say this, but they absolutely hate that. I know if I was a girl, I'd hate it. hell, even I hate that kind of attitude in girls.

Also, you never elaborate on what you did that you consider "kind". maybe if yu elaborate on what you do and how you do it, I can give you some pointers.

[BoredGeorge]

Maybe I should just find a hole to crawl into and die.

I think I understand why I can't find a girlfriend. People hate me just because I am me. There is nothing I can do that I have not already done.

I can go off and have a positive attitude as I have done many times before. The end result will always be the same.

Rejection.

Thanks a lof for nothing.

[emma1234]

What did you SERIOUSLY expect us to say??? Geez man, grow up! The end result WILL always be the same, because you cant expect a woman to get horny over some guy whos whiny and emo. Confidence is attractive, whinging because things dont go your way every single time isnt.

Stop trying to find a girlfriend. Its off putting. You cant expect people to have a good attitude towards you if you dont even have a good attitude towards yourself, let alone anyone else!!!!!!!!!

I would say that there is a HELL of a lot more you can try.

[Junket]

Maybe I should just find a hole to crawl into and die.

I think I understand why I can't find a girlfriend. People hate me just because I am me. There is nothing I can do that I have not already done.

I can go off and have a positive attitude as I have done many times before. The end result will always be the same.

Rejection.

Thanks a lof for nothing.

You get what you put in.

[BoredGeorge]

What did you SERIOUSLY expect us to say??? Geez man, grow up! The end result WILL always be the same, because you cant expect a woman to get horny over some guy whos whiny and emo. Confidence is attractive, whinging because things dont go your way every single time isnt.

Stop trying to find a girlfriend. Its off putting. You cant expect people to have a good attitude towards you if you dont even have a good attitude towards yourself, let alone anyone else!!!!!!!!!

I would say that there is a HELL of a lot more you can try.

Stop trying to find a girlfriend is exactly the type of silly game I am talkng about. So to find a girlfriend I have to stop trying to find one ?

Easy for you to say, you're probably a chick with big tits, as if you'd ever have trouble finding a boyfriend.

[SAVANAH]

Wow Im heavily astonished.
You really need to stop going out there with "Will you be my girlfriend" written all over you face, WE CAN SEE IT and it's desperate, I agree with every single comment made here.

Yes your being desperate
Yes your being childish
Yes your whiny
Yes your have a bad attitude
Yes your trying too hard
YES YES YES YES

and Yes your disgusting! sies

If I were you I would start cleaning out my life (incl going for some tests) stop thinking about women dude, take it easy and evaluate your life and Im sure theres a lot that need improving....

Work on taking responsibilty for your actions, read books and speak about what you going through, you might need to see a therapist or something, and you might think we all trying to be mean to you, but the thing is you dont want to open your eyes and listen to what we are saying.
It's like your looking for a specific answer and Im telling you, you not going to get it....
Everything being said here is for your own good and I do wish you would listen and take the advice given to you.

Do us all a favor and kick out the sluts get some porn or a doll, but stop sticking it everywhere please, and you say you have the utmost respect for woman even though you paying them for sex, which to my believe is immoral.

Get your act together man, you've got good intentions and but your heads in the wrong place.

Start taking care of yourself and build up your confidence, go out without the intention of meeting someone, socialize. maybe get some hobbies, you'll be surprised by the outcome.

But you first have to look for the fault in yourself and see what needs attention and go from there, look on the net for ideas to build self esteem, you can always find help on the net.

You cant change unless you want to...
You have to see for yourself that need it...

also you may not realize it but you are quite offending to women

Hope you open you eyes!