need some advice please

[inabadplace]

been talking to an seeing this girl some for about three months we have talked about a more official relationship but she says that she not ready for one yet (she has had a bad past) but yet we still hang all the time an talk daily eithier by text or phone she has google eyes when we talk an when we are on the phone i can hear smile so i guess what im askin is what do i do to take it to the next level

[Indignant]

don't pressure her, but do try to make a good impression. she needs to see that no one can be better then you.

[1averagejoe]

She's got baggage and you're her bell boy!

Or she's screwing someone on the side and wants to keep you around as backup.