I have mixed feelings after I read the post. I have been through this once and I vowed never to let that happen to me again.
Sorry about the meandering...
Now, sorry about hurting you further.
You sound so very wimpy in this post that my heart goes out to you. Listen, the truth is only there as long as you can experience it.
There is no point in "not giving up" but I can't say " dump her" too. You could do something smarter.
Since you seem to be very resilient ( your multiple "I'll climb...I'll climb" made me think so), let her be. Let her say anything or do anything. Let her lead you on with statements like " it's over", " I have a bf" or whatever. Let her go to hell.
You go ahead and do what you normally do in life. Hit the gym, take a course, work harder and guess what? Be in touch. But be in touch as if you don't really care; that you are calling since you just want to be in touch for old times' sake. Tease her and demonstrate value. Make her feel that she really missed out on a helluva great guy.
If she comes back to you, shows signs, tries too get back. You win.
If she still doesn't get it, you win.
God won't help. Only YOU can. Wish you the very best.
Last edited by utopianhercules; 18-06-09 at 04:24 PM.
Reason: spelling mistakes
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