A "Cute" Comment

[struckby]

Hey gals, quick question. I was talking to my crush today on the phone. We were talking about how we both saw members of our colleges basketball team in the same day. She was telling me how she saw a tall guy, thought he was cute, walking down the hallway with his girlfriend. She nonchalantly said he was cute but I am wondering if this means anything.

So, is this a passing comment? She obviously is not interested in dating him, so why the comment?

[Yggdrasil]

You're cute.

[struckby]

So she thinks I'm cute by talking about him? Funny stuff..its nothing I'm concerned about really, only amused I guess.

I don't mind showing how clueless I am..haha

[Yggdrasil]

I think you missed the point lol.

If I would have asked myself that question everytime in the last 25 years my wife said something like: WOW, did you see that guys six pack or, he's good looking, I'd probably be divorced by now.

I just play the ball back by saying: darn hot looking chick over there or, HOLLY.. did you see her boobs?

Then we smile, we wink at eachother and that's that.

Don't take those things to serious.

We're human.. take it with a smile

[ecojeanne]

she doesn't know you like her right? if she was crushing on you i would reckon she wouldn't have said he was cute. maybe you should tell her you like her and find out if she likes you.

[struckby]

We've gone out once on a "real" date if you will. Neither of us has either dated before so yea Im gonna tell her soon, next weekend in fact.

And yea I guess I did miss the point, haha.