Dating older women...

[Asip4u]

So during the last few years i've been dating a lot however only older women seem interested in me...I'm 29...the youngest one was 32 and oldest 38...The only thing that makes sense to me is the fact that i don't look my age plus i'm kinda tiny. Should i just continue pursuing older women or what?

[Mr.Meat]

Forget about age [ except for under 18] and hook up with whoever attracts you.

[ecojeanne]

i consider 29 and 32 the same age -maturity wise anyway...why you asking this? you're almost 30..whats the difference?

[Enigmos]

agreed with others. sounds like the age bothers you. if so, why?

[BoredGeorge]

Older wome = yuck.

Young women = yum.

[BoredGeorge]

i consider 29 and 32 the same age -maturity wise anyway...why you asking this? you're almost 30..whats the difference?

You consider 29 and 32 the same number ? ****, I'm glad your not my accountant,

[Asip4u]

My friends are mostly European and their g/fs are at least few years younger...I know in North America it's more of a norm to date or even marry a girl of pretty much any age as long as it's legal...i guess to me it's a bit of a problem, it's not one of those things where i think that pretty much anything goes.

[vashti]

If you aren't comfortable with dating any particular group of people, then don't force yourself. You won't have fun, and you may embarrass them.

[IndiReloaded]

Its not a big deal, esp once you hit 30. Go for it.

[ecojeanne]

You consider 29 and 32 the same number ? ****, I'm glad your not my accountant,

i'm glad too, actually i wonder what you are like IRL, are you pleasant? are you polite? are you helpful? are you a troll? are you a kid that is sitting there laughing with his nazi mates about how much he can wind everyone up?

i do adore your posts tho george

[Ton]

... When I am 12, I only interested on same age girls. When I am 13, I love two 30+ woman. When I am 14, I love one and she still attracts me right now, she is 38 that time. When I am 15, I still love woman older than me, 45, 18 and back to 16. But the 16 is still older than me...~

[Cbrider]

I have never really dated anyone older than me, within a year or two of my age. Sometimes the idea entertains me, but other times it creeps me out.

I had some early thirties lady hitting on me downtown one night. She was very good looking for her age, but it just bothered me.

Everyone sees it differently, but you have to remember age is simply a number, nothing more.

[Raze]

Older wome = yuck.

Young women = yum.

Hahaha! Well said!

[Gigabitch]

What do YOU want? Are you just dating to have some fun or are you looking for a serious relationship? If the latter, going with someone significantly older might be a bad idea. It really narrows down your options.

A lot of women approaching 40 start to freak out about getting older and not being sexually attractive to every man they meet. Some people see this as a relief and some see it as a death sentence. I have both kinds of friends. The ones that don't choose to age gracefully can make the most terrible asses of themselves chasing younger men.

I'm not saying that the 38 year old was only interested in you for an ego boost, but it's a distinct possibility but I'd hate to see you waste your time on someone who doesn't want you for you.

Age is "just a number" if you believe that, but to some people, it's an obsession. It ain't pretty, either.

[Asip4u]

Some good points Giga. See thats another problem too...A lot of these women also (from what i can tell) want a short term relationship..Many of them were married before and just want to have fun for awhile...and of course there's nothing wrong with that...It's just that I am getting to the point where i've had my fun and just want to settle down with a nice girl and have a family in the near future.

What do YOU want? Are you just dating to have some fun or are you looking for a serious relationship? If the latter, going with someone significantly older might be a bad idea. It really narrows down your options.

A lot of women approaching 40 start to freak out about getting older and not being sexually attractive to every man they meet. Some people see this as a relief and some see it as a death sentence. I have both kinds of friends. The ones that don't choose to age gracefully can make the most terrible asses of themselves chasing younger men.

I'm not saying that the 38 year old was only interested in you for an ego boost, but it's a distinct possibility but I'd hate to see you waste your time on someone who doesn't want you for you.

Age is "just a number" if you believe that, but to some people, it's an obsession. It ain't pretty, either.