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    Raising kids is pretty much a full time job. That's my experience after 3 of them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    To be honest, I do think that women entering the workforce (and making significant money) and farming their kids out to daycare has rendered men unnecessary to some extent.
    And where exactly will single women get the money for daycare on a single income? Bear in mind, women making a significant amount of money necessary to support even a single child are still a minority.
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    ^^lol the men are still needed, mish don't get scared

    *shhhh, you're not supposed to tell them* vashti...hehe
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    This with child support. Read it and weep.

    [url]http://www.nytimes.com/2007/08/03/nyregion/03women.html?_r=1[/url]

    Young women in New York and several of the nation’s other largest cities who work full time have forged ahead of men in wages, according to an analysis of recent census data.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ecojeanne View Post
    ^^lol the men are still needed, mish don't get scared

    *shhhh, you're not supposed to tell them* vashti...hehe
    As far as I can see, the easiest thing for any man is to cross polenate as many women as possible and have the women raise their children on their own. If that's the new ideal for some women, if they no longer want to reward support then that's kinda sad.

    Oh well, I suppose go the new liberated man!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mishanya View Post
    As far as I can see, the easiest thing for any man is to cross polenate as many women as possible and have the women raise their children on their own. If that's the new ideal for some women, if they no longer want to reward support then that's kinda sad.

    Oh well, I suppose go the new liberated man!
    I would ask the question: how did it get to that point?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Yggdrasil View Post
    I would ask the question: how did it get to that point?
    I'd say through selfishness, ignorance and pride
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    So sad when there's a guy who has kids with like 4-5 different women...not caring about any of them...can't stand guys like that..but then again...i sometimes blame women for allowing themselves to get into that situation..


    Quote Originally Posted by Mishanya View Post
    As far as I can see, the easiest thing for any man is to cross polenate as many women as possible and have the women raise their children on their own. If that's the new ideal for some women, if they no longer want to reward support then that's kinda sad.

    Oh well, I suppose go the new liberated man!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mishanya View Post
    I'd say through selfishness, ignorance and pride
    Lack of commitment? Peer pressure?

    I rather think a combination of a lot of things.
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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    This with child support. Read it and weep.

    [url]http://www.nytimes.com/2007/08/03/nyregion/03women.html?_r=1[/url]

    Young women in New York and several of the nation’s other largest cities who work full time have forged ahead of men in wages, according to an analysis of recent census data.
    Nationally, men’s wages in general declined while women’s remained the same.

    Several experts also said that rising income for women might affect marriage rates if women expect their mates to have at least equivalent salaries and education.

    “When New York college women say there are few eligible men around, they’re right if they mean they’ll only settle for someone with an education akin to their own,” Professor Hacker said.
    Where's that gold digger?

    Anyway, like the article says, “New York is an achievement-based city, and achievement here is based on how well you use your brain, not what you do with your back,”. Therefore, my work is safe.
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    in fairness mish it's not ultimately what most women want. women generally want a partner they love and respect for life. well that's what i want and i reckon most are with me on this
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    Quote Originally Posted by ecojeanne View Post
    in fairness mish it's not ultimately what most women want. women generally want a partner they love and respect for life. well that's what i want and i reckon most are with me on this
    Yeah but that's hard work eco... and not everybody is willing to put that into a relation.. the hard work that is.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Frasbee View Post

    Anyway, like the article says, “New York is an achievement-based city, and achievement here is based on how well you use your brain, not what you do with your back,”. Therefore, my work is safe.
    You'd be safe anyway. Women love men that can work with their hands.

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    Women love men that can work with their hands.
    I am trying to figure out how I should read that....
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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    This with child support. Read it and weep.

    [url]http://www.nytimes.com/2007/08/03/nyregion/03women.html?_r=1[/url]

    Young women in New York and several of the nation’s other largest cities who work full time have forged ahead of men in wages, according to an analysis of recent census data.


    The average cost per year of raising a child

    Single-Parent Family
    Age
    of Child Total

    0 to 2 5,440
    3 to 5 6,150
    6 to 8 6,910
    9 to 11 6,440
    12 to 14 6,920
    15 to 17 7,670
    Total 118,590

    [url]http://moneycentral.msn.com/articles/family/kids/tlkidscost.asp[/url]

    Average cost of living in New York

    [url]http://www.law.monash.edu.au/castancentre/internships/gyorki-accommodation.html[/url]

    Cost of living in New York in comparison to other cities

    [url]http://www.infoplease.com/ipa/A0883960.html[/url]


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    Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
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