Could I be wrong?

[traveler]

Hi guys,
A few days ago i saw that my ex put a few words on her msn nickname "Am i a freak? still in love with you ,,, happy 8th anniversary my dear. big kiss n hug. love you babe!" but i saw something that caught my attention and that is the 8th anniversary coz is about months and if we were still together this month would be the 8 in other words our 8 anniversary. I havent talk to her for a long time. Should I talk to her or not??

[SpecifiedLover]

Well if you still want her you should say something. Better start talking general and after make a comment about her nickname.

[Lonely_Star]

He/She certainly still remembers that's for sure! Many out there who forgot how to count! LOL If you have a good feeling about it go for it....

[traveler]

I'm not sure about it coz we broke up about 4 months ago, so i can be a possibility that the message on her nickname is not for me

[SpecifiedLover]

The 8 was for yours anniversary??? Or was for another guy before you?

[traveler]

thats the real question, but i still think is for me coz she was with her ex for 2 years but she ended the relationship last year about October so i dont think is for that guy and she ended up thing with me about Feb and March so the 8 doesnt really match if u do the maths

[Gigabitch]

Yes, you could be wrong, and how embarrassing would that be?

What are the details of the breakup?

[traveler]

Everything was great til she told me she could be with me because a stupid promise she made with her ex was something about not having another bf instead of him and also not having a bf for 3 years and when her ex told her he was still in love with her she said the same to him, she told me she was lying when she told him that she loves him that she could break his heart and be so cruel and thats pretty much why she dumped me

[traveler]

Everything was great til she told me she couldnt be with me.
this is on the beginning. sorry my bad

[SpecifiedLover]

So it's probably for you You know what you have to do....

[traveler]

how should I talk to her? any advice?

[SpecifiedLover]

Normally just say hi and let the rest come up. A good explaination of talking to her will be that you are thinking of her lately and you wanted to see if she is ok.(if the nickname is true she will start talking if not she will end up the conversation)

[traveler]

I think u r right i'll talk to her and c what happens.
Any more advices are welcome!

[little pingoin]

I've never heard of anyone breaking up with someone because they made a promise to their ex they wouldn't date anyone for any specific period of time. That's just odd. The word 'promise' doesn't seem to hold much meaning for her. Are you sure you want her back?

[traveler]

I thought it was really odd and stupid as well coz we were going great in our relationship, but u r also right i need to consider if I want her back