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    What does it mean when he grabs your butt?

    I am friends with this married man - ok we have been pretty much just acquaintances up until this last weekend. We were out of town and his wife wasn't there. He was flirting with me all weekend which was interesting and enjoyable. I though it was harmless and that it was kind of nice to get to know him better. I haven't seen him be much of a flirt in general. Then the last night he drank a little too much and grabbed my butt. I did like it.
    Now I'm just a little confused. Is that beyond harmless flirting? Did he just go too far because he is drunk? Maybe his marriage is in trouble?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sputnick View Post
    Maybe his marriage is in trouble?
    Do you want to stick around long enough to find out?

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    Flirting is one thing, but touching is a quite another. He obviously thinks you arethe kind of woman who will mess around with someone else's man. Will you?

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    You guys ask good questions

    That is the perfect question to ask.
    I wouldn't if he was happily married. I never would with someone I just met because I would feel too guilty.
    See, I actually do like him. But I won't be the other woman. I have messed around with a separated man before - knowing they were going to get divorced...so there wasn't any harm.

    As is always true in these forums, we all want someone to tell us the future or something that is impossible to know.

    I just don't know what his marriage is like.

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    He is a big part of a hobby I am involved in. He isn't going anywhere and neither am I.

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    If he is still married, you should assume he is satisfied with his wife. If he wasn't, he would leave her. Sleeping with someone on the side is not an indication that a man doesn't love his wife. It's just an indication that he lacks character.
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    That's the worst type of woman. A woman who doesn't respect other women. Leave that married man alone. That's just wrong. You'll make someone catch a case.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sputnick View Post
    Maybe his marriage is in trouble?
    Maybe it is.

    Will you help him fix it by jumping his bones?
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    Sounds like a playa to me. I would stay away from him. He wants you for a fling probably.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sputnick View Post
    Then the last night he drank a little too much and grabbed my butt. I did like it.

    Now I'm just a little confused. Is that beyond harmless flirting? Did he just go too far because he is drunk? Maybe his marriage is in trouble?
    Hmmm. male grabs female butt... what could that mean? Oh wait.. I know.. HE HATES YOU!!!!!!!!!!!

    Even you aren't that naive.
    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]

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    It means that he disrespected you. This should be enough for you to stay away from him. It doesn't matter if his marriage is in trouble; that's none of your business. Your business is making sure this doesn't happen again. Quit drinking with married men.
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    It means he wants to put his penis in you.

    Don't flirt with married men, unless you're a homewrecker with horrid character.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gigabitch View Post
    It means that he disrespected you. This should be enough for you to stay away from him. It doesn't matter if his marriage is in trouble; that's none of your business. Your business is making sure this doesn't happen again. Quit drinking with married men.
    I see this at work all the time. My one co-worker is married and he does this. I hate it and I don't know why he gets away with it. It's disgusting.

    I also don't like it when guys do it to me. I'm a guy. I feel violated when it happens and makes me question their preferred sex.

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    What if I did it to you?
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    So much crap they had to start a second pile.
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