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Thread: I messed up really bad.....

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    I messed up really bad.....

    My girlfriend trusted me with a really big secret.
    A really really important event happened, and i had to keep it a secret.
    Later some day after, one of her best friends comes to me and asks what happened. I gave her a minor hint, and she assumed the rest. She ended up telling my girlfriend, and she will not forgive me now. She is really upset. How to i apologize? I really love her, and i didn't mean to screw up.

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    what was the secret?

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    "I'm sorry and I'm terrible at keeping secrets. I promise to never do that again or ever hurt you again."
    I will do my best to reply with an educated, humble and honest answer. Ultimately, it is up to you whether you want to listen to my advice or ignore it completely. Sometimes, my advice may be wrong; occasionally, it will be right. Regardless, I want to do my best to give people answers they are seeking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Liza View Post
    what was the secret?
    If i told you, i wouldn't have changed at all now would i?

    Quote Originally Posted by Raze View Post
    "I'm sorry and I'm terrible at keeping secrets. I promise to never do that again or ever hurt you again."
    Thanks!

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    Gad I hate when you trust someone to NOT tell your gf and then she goes and tells her. ya see thats what this site is great for, you can let it out and it wont affect her.
    Letting a secret out that she trusted you with would make me mad if I was her too but not enough to wreck the relationship. Let her know the friend guessed it and your back was against a wall and you didnt want to lie but you saw how much it effected her and like raze says say it won't happen again. Youre going to have a little bit of trust to build back up.

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    what a shame.

    Tell her, her friend assume it that you did not gave her the whole cat out of the bag, that you ONLY showed her the cat's head and that was all.

    Tell her you are sorry, to save your relationship.

    Meanwhile, sercrets are denstine to be exposed.
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