Older-wiser-and now sexless????????

[wondergirl]

A few years ago, we met very interested in each other. Sex came along and was great and frequent. Over the next couple of years his sex drive has dwindled to just about nothing. He is under a lot of stress with this dang economy, but don't guys eventually get an urge to need or something to have sex? He does have issues with his prostate, (he says) from time to time and I can understand that, but he has told me that he just doesn't have any drive any more. YET, he can chat online about having sex with his "old" and "new" chat girls, set up meetings, but never go, he uses a fake name, so I'm thinking he is kinda addicted, but can't perform for whatever reasons and this is what he is doing to make him feel more like a man. He has done everything for me, treats me like a queen, etc., but I know that isn't always the total package. He can treat me like that saying I am the special one, yet he can't come to grips to get really adventurous and aggressive as I would like for him to be. He says he just can't with me. I'm like on a pedestal or something?? Ok guys, help me out. What's the story. I'm an attractive woman, but I'm beginning to doubt myself in many ways. His friends are very complimenting to me on my looks, personality, and kid him about keeping a watch on me or they will step in (ha ha like that will happen). OK, I'm ready for advice. Help me!

[Lite]

Why don't you find someone that's actually into you? or, go to therapy as a couple, or just show up wearing just an overcoat or...

But, if he's chatting up other women, you should be making for the hills unless you're married.

[miSSleepy]

YET, he can chat online about having sex with his "old" and "new" chat girls, set up meetings, but never go, he uses a fake name, so I'm thinking he is kinda addicted, but can't perform for whatever reasons and this is what he is doing to make him feel more like a man.

What? Can you elaborate on this?

[PAiNLESS]

When was the last time you two had sex? o_O

[Charlie Boy II]

He might be addicted to porn