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    help....advice needed!!!

    So I recently went on vacation and I met this woman whose eyes melted me & had me from the first second I saw her! She works at one of the hotels I stayed at. We made eye contact on a couple of occasions and I felt like we had blazing chemistry. I never said anything to her about it though, I thought I would see her again before my holiday ended. Well, I never saw her before I left and can't seem to get her out of my mind.

    She's in USA & I live in Australia. I have since returned to work and my normal life, but like I said, can't get her out of my mind. So I sent an email to her workplace & her boss said she would happily pass on my letter to the woman I can't stop thinking about (she doesn't have her own direct email at work and I didn't have any other way to contact her).

    So that was a few days ago & I haven't heard back from my long distance crush! I don't know how long I should wait for a response.....should I call her at her work & see if she even got my email from her boss? Or should I just wait & hope that she replies?

    I told her that she has beautiful eyes, does a great job at making people feel welcome and that I would like to get to know her. I know that we are on different continents!, but travelling there regularly wouldn't be a problem. And we had such good chemistry, I really thought she may have fancied me!

    Should I wait for her to respond to my email, try to make contact again, or just let it go? I've never really tried to start a relationship or date a woman online, so I don't know how long these email processes should or normally take.

    Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated.....

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    She probably got the email, and is trying to decide whether or not to respond. If you haven't heard from her in a week, I'd forget about her. She may have a boyfriend, or may not be interested for any number of reasons.

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    I think you have enough waited , either you call her or try to her get out of your mind . I know its difficult but i dont think so you have any choice .

    Best of luck .

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    She probably got the email, and is trying to decide whether or not to respond. If you haven't heard from her in a week, I'd forget about her. She may have a boyfriend, or may not be interested for any number of reasons.
    Thanks Vashti..... was pretty much what I was thinking anyway, I suppose I just needed to hear it from someone else!

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