Pain and sex

[Ace1972]

My girl and I have been experimenting with this as of late, and I must say that nipple clamps, etc are awesome-they increase pleasure alot. Right now, she hadds the clamps to me after I intensley aroused, but we are advancing...

I just wonder why is pain and sex related like it is? Anyone else have any experience?

[doppelgaenger]

I can't relate. I'm completely turned off and annoyed with something painful manifesting.

Maybe you watch a ****load of porn or something.

[KaraScott]

Maybe because pain makes you more sensible. That way the pleasure of sex makes more sense.

I don't really know, haven't really tried it..lol

[KandiJ]

My girl and I have been experimenting with this as of late, and I must say that nipple clamps, etc are awesome-they increase pleasure alot. Right now, she hadds the clamps to me after I intensley aroused, but we are advancing...

I just wonder why is pain and sex related like it is? Anyone else have any experience?

I can relate! I love a bit of pain, whether it be a hard spanking, anal or a bit more extreme than i can post! hell yes

[cewzp4]

I like to be smacked around and scratched every once in a while. I'd guess it has to do with the animalistic element to it.

[Ace1972]

I like to have my girl leave her mark on me--the harder the better it is animalistic, I think.

[bloodtippedrose]

I love when fingers are dug deeply into my hips or i get pushed hard on a bed or couch and my panties tore off, lil bit of choking, squeezing, spanking, blindfold or getting tied up. he does too, HAWT. nipple clamps? no thanks.

Why does it turn people on to dominate or be dominated? I have no idea but it works for me.
I remember reading about why people get turned on by power over another when I was reading about necrophilia.. but i cant for the life of me remember what it was

[DoesntMatter]

I want a partner like you btr

[Gigabitch]

If somebody tried to choke me I'd knee him in the balls.

[jrharvey]

I love when fingers are dug deeply into my hips or i get pushed hard on a bed or couch and my panties tore off, lil bit of choking, squeezing, spanking, blindfold or getting tied up. he does too, HAWT. nipple clamps? no thanks.

Why does it turn people on to dominate or be dominated? I have no idea but it works for me.
I remember reading about why people get turned on by power over another when I was reading about necrophilia.. but i cant for the life of me remember what it was

Oh wow. That is hot. Can I say that here? WOW.

[Holly3278]

Pain during sex is also known as dyspareunia. You can learn more about it by Googling it or by going to Wikipedia and looking it up. If your girl is suffering from pain during sex, you might want to take her to a gynecologist or a clinic. It is treatable.

[miSSleepy]

Pain during sex is also known as dyspareunia. You can learn more about it by Googling it or by going to Wikipedia and looking it up. If your girl is suffering from pain during sex, you might want to take her to a gynecologist or a clinic. It is treatable.

It's always a good idea to read the posts before responding.


As for pain and sex, yeah some people like the extreme, but it doesn't have to be an extreme pain. I think it's to do with the way the nerves are connected through the body... touching the nipples intensifies the feeling in the clitoris, for example. Not sure exactly how it works, but there is an explanation for it somewhere out there.

[Feonixbrimstone]

Our bodies have the so called erogenous zones. Depending on the person they may get aroused by a touch on teh neck or the nipple. some may not feel much arousal from those areas. its how each person is built.


On to the pain. pain is a reaction that can be really pleasurable when applied to the erogenous zones. but back to pain its self. When your brain receives the pain signal it produces adrenaline in your body so you can get away from it. the basic biology.


BUT since we have evolved so much mentally we have learned to ignore this fight or flight response and the productions of adrenaline excites our bodies and makes us even more sexually aroused. but since the feeling can be too much for some the pain response is more than the arousal and it turns us off.


everyone else just try it out a little start with a little nibble here and there or scratching with your fingers nails lightly. whatever experiment people you never know you might actually find the the pain addictive.