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    Not Interest in love - strange??

    Hello All,
    just came around this forums thru google, looks nice so signed up!

    I am 26 Male, my concern is,Am not all interested in love/relationships/sex or anything of that sort...

    I am stuck in life, all i think about is doing something good for myself or becoming someone in life!!!

    Is it strange or be like me? even when i look at girls, the attraction lasts for a very short time( maybe like 5 mins) then i go back to " normal state"

    a lot of my friends say its not normal!!

    since am new here, i defnitely expect some "rude" answers, but i welcome any advice/comment.

    oops, how do i edit the title?

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    I'd say focus on your goals. If you don't have goals, make some for yourself.

    It's a good time in your life to be critical. Ask yourself why you do the things you do. Ask yourself what the meaning of life is.

    I was in that spot before I met my current girlfriend. I realized I wanted to be involved in academia; that I want to focus not just on my passion of the subjects I study, but also the students. Instead of majoring in art, I decided to minor (I am 3 credits away from a minor) This semester I decided to take some teaching courses; I love them! I plan on teaching high school for a few years, and eventually getting a graduate degree.

    Don't worry about women for now.
    Last edited by doppelgaenger; 08-10-09 at 02:14 AM.

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    Maybe you're lucky. I think a lot of guys would love to experience life free of fascination and entanglement with women.
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    Some people are asexual... until they meet the right girl or guy.

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    maybe your gay....how do u feel when u look at a man?

    (just threw up in my mouth)
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    "Sometimes the hardest part isn't saying GoodBye, Its waking up the next morning knowing that its TRUE" -AR

    " When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, you want your life to start as soon possible" -?

    "Too Fast to Live, Too Young to Die" -James Dean

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    Hey! More girls for the heteros, right? No need to hate on the homos.
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    thats very true...ty giga lol
    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]

    "Sometimes the hardest part isn't saying GoodBye, Its waking up the next morning knowing that its TRUE" -AR

    " When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, you want your life to start as soon possible" -?

    "Too Fast to Live, Too Young to Die" -James Dean

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    ^^for ur info am not gay, am dead straight

    @doppelgaenger -
    It's a good time in your life to be critical. Ask yourself why you do the things you do. Ask yourself what the meaning of life is.

    i know man, been doing that for 5 years.somehow still stuck there!!

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