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    Troubles in Love

    I'm completely confused about what to do about my current situation!
    My boyfriend of 2 years is emotionally cheating on me, by this I mean hes a total player, he is my boyfriend, but he feels the need to chat up girls behind my back and lead them on until they want him and then pretty much say **** off. I dont really know if this should affect me coz its nothing physical, but just the fact that he lies to these girls about me being his girlfriend for sport!
    Last night I had a discussion with him coz i knew something was up coz he started talking about 'space' but still wanting me their at the same time, so I went over to his against my better judgement to talk.
    He told me he gave out his number at the races which was 2 weeks ago and shes like him as in a player and because she lied to him even though he was lying to her he decided to take it that next step forward.
    He convinced her to pick im up from work to drive him to mine but stopped off at mcdonalds where one of her boyfriends best friends works and of course hes called her boyfriend and he broke up with her and my boyfriend just left her there. I'm pretty sure her boyfriend actually hit her! \
    All because my boyfriend wanted to win the game when hes in a relationship with me.
    Now this isnt the first time hes done this! It hasnt gone to that extreme but it has happened!
    He wants to go to relationship counselling and fix it. But he can't promise me he wont do it again. All he says is he will some day!
    What should I do? I love him but hes breaking my heart!
    Should I cut and run? Go on a break? or try and work it out?
    I really need help on this one!

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    If you don't mind me asking, how old are you? By the way, nice touch with the blue font on your first post ! :-)

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    what a dick.

    The upside is he says he wants to try and sort it with councelling. you need to get to the bottom of why hes actually doing it and why he feels the need to play the field.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sarahpop View Post
    What should I do? I love him but hes breaking my heart!
    Should I cut and run?
    Yup that^^ Don't ignore all the warning signs. This man doesn't respect you and he will make your life hell
    Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
    Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
    Towards the sun, carry your name
    In warm hands you are given
    Ask the wind for the way
    Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
    Accept all as it is and do not blame
    God or the Devil
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