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    how to avoid sex

    hey im jus need some advice on to keep off sex ina relationship..I love my gf and she love me and we but sexually active and the sex topic sometimes come into conversation..we both want to but i'm afraid this love we both feeling turns to lust..I dont want my relationship be of pure sex n no love..jus wanna hear some advice on how to avoid sex for now!lol...I dont want love turns into lust or jus satisfaction n pleaseure..i want it be pure true love:S

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    Well, if it's really true love then the sex will only add to it. The only reason a loving relationship will turn into being all about sex is if it wasn't really love in the first place. I say that if you want to do it, then just do it already. If after you do it things end up changing for the worse, then it wasn't real to begin with.

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    this is a nice thought.

    well how long have you been together now?

    you mean you want to save sex for after marriage or?

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    The WOW post made me actually laugh out loud for the first time on a forum. Thank you for that. But ya, like swtbttrfly said, it only adds to the experience. you don't necessarily have to get overly nasty with it.. just keep it low key and intimate. After the first time you do want more, BUT you don't have to go at it like rabbits

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    good god....what's becoming of this world?


    what's your problem with sex? why do you believe that having it will ruin things and make them less pure? it isn't everything, but it's definitely important, so hows about getting over yourself and getting on with it?


    sheesh..

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    My advice to avoid sex is not to put it in the hole because if you do that then it is sex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BoredGeorge View Post
    My advice to avoid sex is not to put it in the hole because if you do that then it is sex.
    Listen to this man. If anybody knows anything about avoiding sex, it's him.
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    ^ Damn....


    Anyway... Sex in a meaningful relationship will only add a new dimension to the love that you feel. If it doesn't, then you didn't have love to begin with.

    So if you got the 'real thing' then your fears are unfounded.


    Now if you want to avoid sex with a woman just tell her that you view her as a sexual object. Not only will she not have sex with you... but her friends will be off limits to you long after the break up.
    Last edited by Aeradalia; 30-10-09 at 10:37 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by okeeg View Post
    I dont want love turns into lust or jus satisfaction n pleaseure..i want it be pure true love:S
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    wear a chastity belt with multiple locks....oh i totally lol'd at gribble's post. noo but i can understand where you are from. i have a friend who is similar, in a sense that he only want's to pursue women for the reasons of "true love" with not intention of having sex as the only thing that's keeping the relationship working. but if it is anything sex should be making the relationship stronger.
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