cum too eary.....

[daletom]

get the guy 2 cum b4 u have sex

That worked for my wife & I. Early in our marriage, if she anticipated a desire for a long period (more than 5 minutes or so) of stroking after insertion, she'd give me a handjob or blowjob early in the foreplay. I had to learn to relax and let it happen, rather than fight it. After that we could have lots of foreplay and intercourse for a long time.

[PAgirl7]

As far as the "ruins the fun and ends the fun" remark, I can see how it could be a little disappointing if he gets off really fast, but it is possible for a man to have multiple orgasms. And since when does it end the fun? If the ONLY way you have fun is through actual intercourse, then yeah I can see how that would be true.

[Exodus]

I dunno what it feels like to go without a condom, but cmon man. Weigh your risks to your pleasures. Getting a kid isn't worth having a little extra pleasure unless you're really ready for a kid.

Yeah as for length, just get off before you really get into it, even doing it yourself before you guys meet can work. Or you could just do this... go once and get off early, then take a small break, go again and you should be good for a while, just because you've gone once doesn't mean after a small break you can't go again, you may not have another one but you can still go and enjoy it with her.

[PAgirl7]

Well my boyfriend doesn't even get to the point where a condom would be necesary, and the kind we'd have to get is too expensive... so I figure what's the point? We've got a box of them just in case, but we won't use them unless we need to.

[BlackRose]

It's no big deal. Have her go down on you, then go down on her. Make sure you both come. Then f***. You will last longer. Another option: F*** multiple times. Just because you came once doesn't mean you can't start back up again in a few minutes. Keep her stimulated with your hands while you recuperate. If you can keep going after one, then great! I don't really see a problem.

[IKnowEverything]

0o0o0o0 look, the immature 13 year old in la la land speaks again...

Its obvious nobody is going to listen to your BS, so don't post something that doesn't warrant being here.

[chelsee]

you need to become on with your "weenie" teach it some obedience.

[King Zarathu]

all of this "think about numbers" etc to stop premature ejaculation is total bullshit in my opinion. let me share with you some psychology:

the BRAIN is the biggest sex organ that you have, and that is what makes you cum, your dick doesn't do it by itself. so, this means that there is some emotional **** up that is making you cum too early.

now, concider: there is something that you're THINKING or you're NERVOUS or SCARED/AFRAID of pleasing her that is getting you to cum early to AVOID a certain thing.

remember, things that happen in your childhood can totally affect you. it takes 5 minutes as a 6 year old to make you totally broke for the rest of your life.

child molestation can also get you to have premature ejaculation.

I hope he does see a sex therapist at least, right?!

Totally agreed, go see a sex therapist and try to figure out why you're cumming early.


Notice porn stars. And no, they aren't "skilled" like that and are able to last an hour. They simply couldn't give a **** less about the other person. you have an orgasm because you are mentally AND physically stimulated. they fake everything FOR THE CAMERAS. they cum as soon as one or several of the following happens:

-They actually get around by the porn star they're ****ing.
-They try to cum because the director instructed them.
-They decide that it is time.

There are more, of course..

Unfortunately, people with premature ejaculation have to figure out what CAUSES their premature ejaculation--which can be anything.

I hope you have money to pay for a "sex therapist" buddy, you're gonna need it unless you can solve it with the following:

Use the meridians on the side of your hands to speak to your subconcious saying "I am NOT afraid and I can last for hours." for 5 minutes straight.

[Steve2004]

Totally agreed, go see a sex therapist and try to figure out why you're cumming early.

uhh...i think killerbabe was referring to the other situation...with the girl who's boyfriend has trouble ejaculating.

[King Zarathu]

okay well whatever u get the point

[Steve2004]

-salutes- most certainly

[mikef]

Just relax and breathe deeply.