Do you think that it is better to have sex before marriage or after ?

[Galbi 3e9aNi]

Do you think you should have sex before or after marriage ??

[Junket]

Before.

Always.

[qwertz]

i dunno, ive never had sex after marriage

[Lipp]

Before.

I get the argument for not doing it - the fewer occurrences of unwanted pregnancies, STD's e.t.c and making sure that you're doing it with "the right person", but I think it's detrimental to marital life itself if the sex life hasn't been proven to work out, I think it's poor that it becomes a reason that people use to get married prematurely (talk about reversed effect...), and I think that the first mentioned risks can be dealt with simply by being careful rather than taking it to that extent.

[Tedel]

After... according to three married friends, at least.
(Hey, Tedel's Back!)

[bluesummer]

Try it before you buy it. Sexual incompatibility leads to huge problems in a marriage.

Besides, what if you don't meet the right person until you're 40? No one should go that long without getting laid.

[girl68]

BEFORE of course. I'd never stay married to a man who isn't sexually compatible with me.