have a lost him for good?

[min0ui]

i recently broke up with my bf, been together for 4 years. he ended it without a reason and i found out that he misunderstood something i said. he says he want to talk when he come over for xmas, as he is studying in crete. i really want to go over to crete and talk to him bt not sure how he will react when he sees me. what should i do?? help pls

[FullofSighs]

Well you should try contacting him before hand, and clear the air. Tell him you wanna see him and talk to him about something. If he doesn't mind you going then go if he does, then just talk to him through some way email, phone, etc.

[min0ui]

he won't talk to me. he says he is gonna talk t me when he comes over and thats about 3 weeks until he comes.. do i just wait until he makes his mind up about what he really wants?? im really scared caz we had plans for a future 2gether.. =(

[bloodtippedrose]

wait it out. let him sort through his thoughts. there might be other reasons he ended it.

[min0ui]

maybe ur right. maybe he has problems of his own and he's not ready t talk t me =(

[min0ui]

i need help... how can i win him back and make him open up?? =(