She's in a relationship. What do I do?

[bluesummer]

So many single girls in the world, and you get attached to two in relationships?

Yes, there are boundaries. Respect other people's relationships. If someone tells you their relationship is 'okay' that doesn't give you the green light to read into it, draw the conclusion they're unhappy and therefore giving you the right to pursue them.

Think about it. Would you be okay with men actively pursuing your woman on the assumption she wasn't happy? If she left you, would you feel like he was obviously the better man and be happy for her? Doubt it.

[Cbrider]

Don't forget their current bf's either. Guys don't take kindly to other guys making advances on their gf's.

Make sure you're bigger than them if your insistent on playing with fire.

[posty]

If you went after me while I was in a committed relationship it would show me that you have no respect for commitment and might be likely to cheat in the future. Strike one!

very stroppy attitude i would stay away from you, you sound scary but your username sounds just about right

[sookie6]

I think Primo's answer was a good one.
Plus if I were in your shoes and had the choice between these two attached women whom I am strongly attracted OR going back on the dating scene and meeting women who are available...well I would certainly choose the second one.
Less complicated and hassle free. Don't cling on these 2 women just because you know them...and you are scared of the unknown territory out there...
I would ditch your thoughts on any commited women.

[azra]

At first I also agreed with Primo, but this could pose a problem in the future because if you express interest now and then go out with someone else, if one of the girls you like breaks up with their bf they might come to you when you're already in another relationship! Life is full of risks, but whatever you do, don't pursue either of them while they are in a relationship as this is very disrespectful, even if their relationship is supposedly "so so".