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    >>so confused<<



    hi everyone...

    i just want to ask your opinions.. im into a relationship but recently me and my ex bf were starting to communicate again.. i met this "x bf" when my current bf and me parted ways years ago... me and my BF got back together.. this "xbf" got married because he got the girl pregnant just a few months later after me and bf got together..

    we've been communicating for a month now (with my x bf) without the knowledge of my bf and his wife... he invited to go what with him since he missed hanging out with me??

    should i go?? i want to but i don't want to hurt my bf...

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    Do you love your current Boyfriend? If you love someone you won't jeopardize the relationship with a ex boyfriend fling. However if you had and have more feelings for your EX boyfriend than it is a bit more complicated.
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    It's really crazy that people still get married just because the girl got pregnant... They will divorce anyway
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    You're planning an affair. You see that don't you?

    Why else the secret contact?

    I think you know that what your already doing would hurt your BF. Taking it further will be the same as throwing his heart in the trash can.

    You CAN NOT have both of these guys, it doesn't work. You need to decide which one you really want, and let the other one go.

    If you find you can't have the one you really want, don't stay with Mr. Second Best. Who ever he is he deserves better.

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