If a man wants to be with you he makes the effort, if he wanted you he'd been replying to your texts calling u etc and telling you he wants to give it another go. even if you told him you wanted to get back or not.
I was in the same situation, and I realised plain and simple he doesn't want me anymore and nothing I could do about it. It's when you yourself invest so much time thinking about it, talking about it to others that you stop seeing the bigger picture. Take a step back and ride it out. If he wants you he'd contact you!
Delete him off your messenger etc play the waiting game, and who knows something eles may just pop up? don't sell yourself short luv, life is way too short