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    This is what my gf said. Am I not supposed to be bothered?

    Alrite so this is how i've always been. Whenever i'd get a few pimples, i'd go to the dermetologist. Or when I start seeing hairfall on my head, i look for a new shampoo, etc . Im just a little paranoid like that
    ALL my past girlfriends thought it was ADORABLE
    I dont know if it actually is lol but thats just how I am. I liketo look after my skin, hair, body , etc. I DONT SEE what the problem is
    so yday i wanted to get a new cream because i started to breakout a bit. My gf goes, you're so GAY, why are you like a little baby? Its ridiculous, seriously youre like a kid.
    WHAT IS UP WITH THAT?? Obviously i got mad, but i didnt say anything.
    Am i NOT supposed to be like that? Or is she NOT supposed to say that to me?

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    hmm... you are more over concern with your skin despite you are a male..

    Sometimes, your friends may find it weird but try to ignore them.

    You are unique .
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    A few pimples do not usually cause someone to run to the dermatologist. Severe acne does. If you don't have severe acne, you are over the top, IMO.

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    I used to have HORRRRIBLE skin. For 4 years i had breakouts after breakouts. And ever since its cleared up (last year), i've always been taking care of it.
    I dont see how its gay though

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    She's probably annoyed becasue you whine and talk about it all the time.

    If you want a new cream go get it why do you have to tell her? If you want a new shampoo just buy it, why's she got to know?

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    the better term she was looking for would probably be metrosexual..

    Well its understandable you would want to take care of your skin after that, however if u freak out over a pimple or wtv, well thats got to be annoying after a while. And you do know hair falls out naturally right?.. i mean unless its falling out in chunks or you got some intense male pattern baldness..

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    Hmm bit harsh off her! how old is she?! I guess some women just aren't used to men taking care of themselves and she's just got some conceptions how real men should be? Just explain to her its not u being 'gay' just you taking pride in your appearance?

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    if you were complaining about pimples and acting impatient about getting the cream, then I could understand where your gf was coming from. However, if you casually mentioned you need to pick up some cream for your face, then I would have been like "What the f*ck? Why do you insult me for taking care of my skin?"

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