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    I'm an idiot.

    I just slept with a guy I really really like. And it was great. Things with the guy were also going great.

    Unfortunately I panicked.

    We were lying there basking in the afterglow and he got up to have a smoke. I'm generally use to being ****ed over so I'm a little but of an emotional retard. When he got back into bed I was like "So should I stay? I can go home" (we happen to live right across the street from one another)

    He just kind of looked at me funny and said, "You can stay, the bed is big enough." but I decided to go. Because clearly I'm an idiot. So now he probably thinks I'm insane because I got all flustered and left. I'm so use to being screwed over that I completely self sabotaged something that was finally going well.

    How can I possibly recove from this? Guys help

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    Erm, just go back over there, make it clear your still interested and im sure he will forget!
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    I don't see what the big deal was. He may have been happy you went home.

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    Go back and give him more great sex, only stick around afterward this time. Everything should be fine

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    I'm with Primo on this one. Even if he was confused by your actions, he'll completely forget about all of that after another good thrashing in the bed. And yeah.. next time stick around.

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    i third these sentiments, in conversation act like it didn't happen say nothing about it, instead make it up to him in bed use the nervous energy its causing u to blow his mind with wicked great sex.

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    i think this was a good move.....it'll make him want you more....

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    Yah I don't see the problem here. Relax

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    thanks everyone. Everything was fine, I panicked for nothing.

    He's out of town until the 28th for Christmas though.

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