My irish girlfriend propose me weird "game".She dominate in our relationship.

[cristianoo3344]

Hi im polish,and i am with irish girlfriend,we love each other,she dominate in our relationship.last time she told me that she wants "play"with me dominnant and submissive.yestarday i found in her wardrobe collar,leash.i just want ask what can i expect from her?do you play in THAT sometimes with your partners?

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[Primo]

Women are submissive by nature. If a woman in a relationship with a man wants to be dominant, chances are she has homosexual tendencies. I wouldn't be surprised if she was bi-sexual, is she?

Most professional doms who are straight, are VERY submissive with their men behind closed doors, the others are generally lesbian or bi.

You may want to have a talk with her about it.

[qwertz]

Hi im polish,and i am with irish girlfriend,we love each other,she dominate in our relationship.last time she told me that she wants "play"with me dominnant and submissive.yestarday i found in her wardrobe collar,leash.i just want ask what can i expect from her?do you play in THAT sometimes with your partners?

Yeh, well the collar and leash isnt really 'normal' as such, but then i guess what defines normal!

Its not something that would interest me..and who would want to be treated like a dog?!!!

I like to dominate to certain level, but thats more initiating what i want and how hard/fast/slow/gentle etc, like being on top etc, but if a guy were to want to be seriously dominated like with the stuff she has, i would find that totally weird.

You might find she wants you to use them on her so she's submissive, but again its not something i see as 'normal'.

[Primo]

I should add on top of that, that if you like or want to be dominated sexually by a woman, you have definite homosexual tendencies too. Not to alarm you or anything, just make you aware.

[cristianoo3344]

Yeh, well the collar and leash isnt really 'normal' as such, but then i guess what defines normal!

Its not something that would interest me..and who would want to be treated like a dog?!!!

I like to dominate to certain level, but thats more initiating what i want and how hard/fast/slow/gentle etc, like being on top etc, but if a guy were to want to be seriously dominated like with the stuff she has, i would find that totally weird.

You might find she wants you to use them on her so she's submissive, but again its not something i see as 'normal'.

i think collar is for me and leash is for her,she is bossy in our relationship,sometimes she call me "puppy bring me this"i love her,if she wants treated me like dog(only sometimes)i agree.

[girl68]

I'm neither bi or gay and I would love to dominate. Except not with a collar and leash. I'm more of a "tie up and whip" kind of girl.

[cristianoo3344]

Women are submissive by nature. If a woman in a relationship with a man wants to be dominant, chances are she has homosexual tendencies. I wouldn't be surprised if she was bi-sexual, is she?

Most professional doms who are straight, are VERY submissive with their men behind closed doors, the others are generally lesbian or bi.

You may want to have a talk with her about it.

no i not agree with you,my girlfriend is dominant,bossy,but never ask me about "playing"submissive,she is 100%hetero.

[qwertz]

oh i dont mind a bit of tying up..that can be fun.

[Cbrider]

Horney ass women.

I still laugh about a pickup line I heard a few years ago. "Let's play fetch - You get on all fours and I'll throw you my bone."

[cristianoo3344]

oh i dont mind a bit of tying up..that can be fun.

yes i think but i dont know what expect from her?do you know how she can dominate me or humiliate me?

[girl68]

I'd have a little talk about it. Express what you don't want, what you're open to and a safe word or action that means no or stop.

Tell her you're open minded but at the same time not anything goes. Ask her if she can ease you into things that she's interested in.

[Gigabitch]

I hope you have a little something you've been fantasizing about that you're ready to spring on her. A leash? That's too far for me.

[all alone]

..and who would want to be treated like a dog?!!!

People who like it 'doggy' style??..

[lahnnabell]

Women are submissive by nature. If a woman in a relationship with a man wants to be dominant, chances are she has homosexual tendencies. I wouldn't be surprised if she was bi-sexual, is she?

Most professional doms who are straight, are VERY submissive with their men behind closed doors, the others are generally lesbian or bi.

You may want to have a talk with her about it.

Where on Earth did you get this info? I am not saying you are wrong, 'cause I truly don't know. I've never heard this before.

I would say you may be wrong, but in my own personal instance I enjoy being dominant and submissive. It depends on the day. And I also am attracted to women. Sooo... it follows your theory. I'm curious as to how factual it is though.