I seem to attract them like bears to honey but when do I know which one is the right one, or a good one?
Right now I'm doing some general dating of several men. I am holding out on sex until I am in a relationship. There is one man that I have gone out with for about two months. He calls me alot and I feel that he really likes me. I am begining to feel attached to him and I suspect he to me.
Why him? I ask myself. I don't want to be feel attached to him. yet, I feel totally myself and comfortable with him. I feel accepted by him and like it that he is himself when with me. But, what I don't like is that he complains a lot. What to do about that? Should I say something?
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23-12-09, 10:18 PM #1
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men, men, men
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23-12-09, 10:33 PM #2
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just say you find it unattractive that he complains. say it puts you off.
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23-12-09, 10:59 PM #3
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I would just tell him to cool down on the complaining. Just say you don't like it when he complains. Also, try to focus on the good qualities rather than the negative.
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24-12-09, 08:32 AM #4
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If you're that comfortable with each other just take him out and ask him to stop the belly aching.
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24-12-09, 09:32 AM #5
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I recommend settling it over a pint. Beer will cool him down.
Originally Posted by Moe
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