Originally Posted by
chockies
If this wasn't my issue, I would have said the same thing as you.
Of course, that's because you already knew this. Everyone wants to believe they are the exception but the numbers don't lie.
I think you really need to spend more time with this guy. Try to think more practically. Football forums and drunk around his niece? Unless this guy have major balancing qualities, he doesn't sound like all that great of a catch, no matter what his culture.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh