Getting a hard on(erection) after cum

[cologne]

I just wanted to know how many minutes at most should it take normally for a man after the first cum to have a hard on again for the second round of action?Is it depended on factors? And how does chicks feel about their guys not able to get a hard on time after the first cum?At least the man needs to rest, so how long is long enough...........

[boobaa]

3 minutes approximately, after 3 times straight I am not able to cum anymore. But this depends how nutritioned I am at the time. I have wondered, if this could be bad to my penis and semen health..?

[shheadz]

There's no real way to answer that question. It depends on you, your health, how hot the sex was, etc. There are times when I don't even go soft after cumming, and I'm immediately ready to go again. There are times when I need 30 minutes. Times when I need half a day. It really depends on my mood, and how hot things are.

[Moe]

I learned along time ago from an older women (WOW what she taught me) who was a nurse that when you are just about to cum try to hold it in by squeezing as hard as you can. If you can control yourself and you know you want to go again it works. Not always because you get lost in the moments. LOL You really have to concentrate. You get the same feeling and all with out all the mess. Just like not cumming at all and you just keep going usually last even longer.

[SJ Tavo]

This one really depends on the guy. I really don't care if he gets hard immediately or if it takes a while and I have a libido that could challenge a porn star. I've had guys who basically have multiple orgasms - so one guy could cum seven or eight times and just keep going. I've had other guys who came and that was it - if he got hard again, it was sheer luck.

I have no idea if you guys can train yourselves to recover quickly or not? My boyfriend now can cum and if he stays in me, in about 30 seconds, we can start up again and go for round 2, 3 and 4.

[lahnnabell]

It has been said that guys who can learn to control their orgasms can become multi-orgasmic or even control whether or not they actually ejaculate. The method behind this is regular stimulation (sex, masturbation, oral, whatever), and then holding off when orgasm becomes imminent. Consistent practice will enable a guy to control his ejaculation and/or his orgasm.

Any guy on here have success with this?

[SJ Tavo]

that's why I never care about a lover's past - because if he's good, I'm just thankful that he's talented and can keep up with my libido LOL

experience is needed by everyone (I will never understand someone waiting until marriage to knock boots) and just makes for a masterpiece of a sex life.

[cologne]

It has been said that guys who can learn to control their orgasms can become multi-orgasmic or even control whether or not they actually ejaculate. The method behind this is regular stimulation (sex, masturbation, oral, whatever), and then holding off when orgasm becomes imminent. Consistent practice will enable a guy to control his ejaculation and/or his orgasm.

Any guy on here have success with this?

In the past i have tried holding off but i guess i ended up each time having a burning sensation in my urethra.Any body experienced that too?

[girl68]

Dunno but usually I don't expect or even want him to get another boner after he busted his nut. Usually I'm done by then anyways!

Though sometimes he goes limp mid sex for whatever reason and in those times if he lets me I just be patient, and give him a slow, soft handjob with plenty of lube. Most often he'll get hard again in just a minute or so.

In terms of how it makes me feel? Oddly enough I feel good that he is slightly embarassed because he just showed how vunerable he is with me. And seeing that side of a man is sometimes a refreshing thing to see. I don't take it personally what so ever.

[lahnnabell]

I agree with girl68. My orgasms knock me on my ass. More often than not I'm asleep before he is.